There are no thousands of days of good, no hundred days of red flowers, a person's future, like the waves of the sea rise and fall, sometimes the low ebb, sometimes the best part. When they encounter difficulties, many people either tell fortune, beg for luck, or pray to the land gong and Mazu to resolve the problem, hoping for a prosperous future, but often in vain.
In fact, the trough of life is not as terrible as we think. As long as we muster up courage, strive to adjust our mood and face it strongly, we can even make use of adversity to create a new ourselves.
In the trough of life, grit your teeth
Nine out of ten things go wrong in life, in the face of difficulties, the help that others can give is limited, the main thing is to rely on yourself. Sima Qian of the Han Dynasty suffered from castration and was greatly humiliated, but he clenched his teeth to complete the Historical Records.
In order to preserve the magic weapon, Master Jingyi of the Sui Dynasty clenched his teeth and carved the Fangshan Stone Sutra, leaving the largest stone book in the world.
Behind the achievements of great virtues and sages in ancient times, it all comes from a persistence of ideals. Clenching your teeth can stimulate your potential, increase your strength, and move forward bravely.
In the trough of life, learn to manage
The trough will never go away, it will only continue to appear, no matter what stage of your life, you are likely to face new difficulties.
Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental English, was rejected by everyone because his appearance was not outstanding and his grades were not as good as his classmates when he was a student at Peking University.
Yu Minhong's heart is extremely lonely these days, but he did not give up easily. Instead, they put all their time in the library. During his time in college, Yu Minhong read a lot of books.
Later, he started a successful business, worth tens of billions of dollars, recalling the days when no one was interested, he said: thank you for that time, let him use reading to manage their own heritage, cultivate their own bearing.
Any success is not for nothing. Those who are good at doing business in low places often reach the high places in life in the end.
At the trough of life, let nature take its course.
In the trough of life, we tend to feel very anxious, there will be a lot of complaints, complain not to me, complain about providence.
In fact, if you calm down and think about it, you will find that it is useless to complain, on the contrary, it will make you more and more negative and negative; it is better to calm down, do a good job in the present, sum up experience, and start again.
I once heard such a story:
A young monk in a monastery thought the courtyard was too monotonous, so he bought a lot of grass seeds and scattered them in the yard in the hope that there would be a green in the yard next spring.
Who knew that the wind blew up on the way and blew away a lot of grass seeds, and the little monk was very upset.
The master looked at him like this, but said disapprovingly, "what is blown away is mostly empty, and it won't sprout even if you sow it." What are you worried about? Casual!
After the grass seeds were sown, it rained heavily at night, and the little monk couldn't sleep. He was secretly worried that the grass seeds would be washed away.
The next morning, he ran out of the meditation room early, and sure enough, all the grass seeds on the ground were gone. So he immediately ran into master's meditation room and said, "Master, last night a heavy rain washed away all the grass seeds on the ground. What should I do?"
The master still said unhurriedly: don't worry, the grass seed will sprout wherever it is washed. Go with fate!
Soon, many green grass seedlings did break out of the ground, and many green seedlings grew in some corners that had not been scattered.
The little monk happily said to the master, "Master, that's great! the grass I planted has grown!"
Master smiled and said, "be happy!"
As a matter of fact, the problems encountered by young monks sowing grass seeds are just like the difficulties we encounter in life. We think about all kinds of entanglements, but we might as well do the present things well and let nature take its course. When you are calm and calm, the willows and flowers will soon meet unexpectedly.
The trough of life, everyone will meet; when we are facing the trough of life, we must believe that every fall is not in vain, every fall, you can see the upward strength from the trough of life.
When you fall and cry bitterly, every time you cry will become your upward strength.
People will reflect, every reflection will make you stronger, and every bad thing you experience may affect your future.
Those who can't crush you will make you stronger.
The trough of life is like a spring. You don't know how high you will play until the last minute.
Frustration is a cruel survival test, the key lies in whether you use it to achieve yourself.
Perhaps, there are many beasts in the trough of life, you can only guess; no one wants to stay in the trough, who knows if there will be any panacea?
No one wants to experience the trough of life, but if you really come to the trough of life, please don't be afraid.
Because always firmly believe that after the wind and rain, the most beautiful rainbow must be waiting for you.
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