What's wrong with being nice to yourself? I often say that I am a very lazy person and a person who knows how to enjoy. I think it is necessary for me to make it clear here that I am not slandering myself. The lazy person here is a commendatory word. Then why would I say that? The reason is very simple, that is, I do not want to live too tired. Life is complicated and wants too much, but the facts tell us that we can get too little, so I have to think of others. Since I can't get it, I won't force it any more.
Life, good or bad, depends on your own state of mind. Contentment, not greed, no extravagance, no compulsion. Then why are you tired? How can you complain that God is unfair all day long? Whenever something bad happens to us, the first thing that comes to mind is God. We always pray to God unconditionally to help us through this disaster. Whenever it is not what you like, we blindly deny God's gift to us. However, have you ever thought that in fact, God has covered most of the disasters for us, and there must be a little space for those fish who slip through the net to bump into you and enter your line of sight? in fact, this is God's good intention, he is informing us that the crisis has arrived, and it is time to prepare for precautions.
I do not like to think about those too complicated things, always feel that I am not Einstein, the brain capacity is not so large, think too much, I can not get the answer, but also very tired, very annoyed. Hehe. Do you think I have no conscience? It really means that the emperor is not in a hurry. In fact, sometimes I also feel that I have no conscience and can't remember a lot of things. When I come to others who think it is urgent, I begin to take my time. I look like a tall man who has fallen in the sky, which is enough to kill my popularity.
However, I have to defend myself. I do this because I love myself too much. What's wrong with that? However, it can be said that I am lazy, but I must not say that I have no sense of responsibility, otherwise I will be very sad. I will naturally be good to myself while doing my part. In fact, I may also be affected by my personality. I have a loose state of mind. I always think that it is good to bow my head and work hard, and leave the rest to time.
I often talk about people, that is, a collection of contradictions. Why? Because I'm always obsessed with contradictions. For example, now in college, roommates often go out early and go home late to take part-time jobs. I haven't been there once. I'm not saying that the financial conditions are very good. I just don't think it's necessary and don't earn much money. why are you so tired? Isn't it good to stay in the library to read books and listen to music? however, I was shaken by their words, but only for a moment. Going out for a part-time job can accumulate experience. They said truthfully, "I was speechless right away." it makes a lot of sense, but I still don't make up my mind to do coolies. I'm too tired. I don't think it's worth it. I'll lose more for those experiences, but it does affect me. So they began to struggle, is not very contradictory ah. Back to the original topic, living like this is so tiring. I will also wonder if I will regret my present decision in the future. I just feel tired when I think about it. Let's live well now.
I don't know what you will think of me when you read this article. I think I am heartless, irresponsible, unmotivated, or negative. Thousands of people, ten million comments, I will accept it calmly, but at least now I will continue to love myself, in this way, maybe someone will ask me why? I figured out the answer:
Do you need any reason to love yourself?
I am an enjoyable person. I love life very much. I can live as comfortably as I can. However, there is a premise, that is: no matter what the result, you must have enough courage to bear this result, in the face of others, maybe we can brutally ignore it, immoral ignore, but no matter how, please be responsible for your own life.
Life is very short, please cherish it, it will not give you a chance to regret, so, in this short time, try your best to love yourself once. Don't ask why, the answer is the same, there is no reason.
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