You've changed.

You have changed.

This is the most common sentence I have ever heard at a classmate reunion.

A few years ago, I worked in a company with several classmates.

At that time, we liked to chat at work, and we got together to play cards after work, holding a so-called stable job.

But a few years ago, I chose to resign.

At that time, they were all persuading me that with such a good job, free and stable, why should I resign? How many people tried to squeeze in.

Many times, I have repeatedly asked myself why.

In the past few years, I have developed my own career.

Countless late-night writers write until one or two o'clock, refuse to socialize most of the time, and only take a few days off a year.

Sometimes they are so busy that they lose track of time to eat and constantly expand their territory in an unknown territory.

In the past, when I got together with several classmates, I always complained about low wages and confusion.

But now, I haven't felt confused for a long time.

As the ancients said, "if you don't break, you can't stand."

If I don't get out of my comfort zone, I can't stand on my own feet. Everything is overthrown before it is established.

If all this cannot be overturned, the rest cannot be set up.

Li Ka-shing said: eggs, breaking from the outside is food, breaking from the inside is life.

It means that to break from the inside is to grow. If you want others to break from the outside, it can only become other people's food.

So, when I hear someone say that you have changed, I will secretly affirm that you have changed for the better.

I once saw a movie in which the heroine was a gorgeous female star in the silent film era.

When the sound film arrived, she was unwilling to accept the reality and locked herself in an isolated mansion.

She is nearly fifty years old, but she stubbornly thinks that she is still the Princess Salome who turned all sentient beings upside down.

Finally, she was left behind by the times, forgotten by the world, and became old and yellow.

A person who is unwilling to change has a funny and sad ending.

In the "Strange Theory", the person who has changed the most is Xiao Yun.

In the final of the fourth season, Xiao said: nowadays, everyone will say that you have changed, but he is very happy.

Because in the first season, the maverick Xiao was a person who could only argue by throwing and rolling.

People like him because of his freshness, but he thinks he is a crane that stands out from the crowd.

But now from my own point of view, it is a chicken that walks into the flock of cranes.

Xiao Jing, who gradually realized this, changed, completely changed.

He became rational, skillful and reasonable, and more and more people liked him.

In the fourth season, Xiao Jing won the King of Wonders.

He said: yes, I have changed, I have changed for the better.

In fact, each of us's life is a process of constant fragmentation and reconstruction.

From small to big, we will continue to set up systems for ourselves to bind ourselves.

Then there will be a lot of things to break it, and then continue to rebuild, and this is growth.

Change, in fact, is to follow the heart, give up inherent ideas, inherent choices. Try again, to create new possibilities.

So, if someone tells you that you have changed again, say to him:

Yes, it's getting better. Thank you for looking at me from the perspective of development.

You've changed. "" Yes, it's getting better. "