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What is a true friend?
Some people say that it is all right to meet each other, and you will always remember you after you leave. Only such people are good friends.
Some people say that a friend who cannot be taken away by time is a true friend.
Others say that a friend who can help in a timely manner is a true friend.
So, what is a true friend?
People's hearts are complicated, and sometimes so-called friends may stab them in the back. However, do not easily despair of friendship, a true friend is a precious wealth.
Learning to judge what a true friend is is an important lesson in life.
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I have a friend who shuttles around all kinds of parties and dinners all day, often exchanging business cards with others, and calling friends are famous good friends in the circle of friends. There are hundreds of Wechat friends alone.
In moments, he is often asked to like or vote, and he is willing to show that he has a wide range of contacts by raising his hand. What he often says is that there are many friends and many ways.
However, when he encountered difficulties in life and needed others to lend a helping hand, none of his so-called friends came forward to help.
The number of likes and comments in moments never represents how many friendships you have. Really good friends are not in moments.
A true friend is not a friend who likes in the circle of friends, nor an acquaintance with drinks on the dinner table, nor is it one side's endless demands from the other. True friendship belongs to those who have gone away, and it is rare for them to suffer together over time.
Xiao Xun once said how to get along with good friends in his "Strange Theory".
He said: the most important thing to get along with good friends is frankness and comfort. I don't want him to come to me to borrow money, and I don't want me to be careful when I ask him to repay the money. This is the way for good friends to get along.
There will be many kinds of friends in life, but real friends are rare. Hair small, classmates, colleagues and even strangers, back and forth, stop-and-go, and finally stay with the side, is the true friend!
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So sometimes, you don't have to worry about haggling and refusing to forgive you, because friends who need to curry favor with are not worth making deep friends with.
A friend who understands your tears is better than a friend who only remembers your shortcomings but refuses to accept your kindness. It would be nice to have one or two true friends, so you don't have to ask for more.
When true friends know our weaknesses, they can warn us right to the point instead of muddling along.
True friends will not show their strength or success, on the contrary, they will tell you the embarrassment and embarrassment that happened to them, which is a kind of trust.
A true friend will sincerely care about your difficulties and difficulties, and will be gentle when you are vulnerable.
A true friend is someone who makes you feel at ease, can see through all your thoughts at a glance, understands your joys and sorrows, cries with you, makes noise with you, and laughs with you.
A true friend is the benefactor who helps you up when you fall, and the one who never leaves you when you have nothing.
True friends do not know sweet words, true villains will be hypocritical; like me to go together, do not like please make a detour!
Life is too short to be hypocritical. People can't read, but they must know people. The tree is thousands of feet tall and never forgets its roots, and people need to be grateful if they are brilliant.
Time is like a big sieve, which can withstand the filter, and the last one who remains is a true friend.
Time, can not take away true friends; years, can not keep illusory possession. Those who never leave and never give up are true friends.
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