The saddest thing in life is too much: the son wants to support but does not wait.
Wealth requires a process of accumulation. when you are rich enough, your parents are old or gone, and it is unnecessary to show filial piety.
My grandfather had a dream to take a plane. We juniors didn't want to achieve what he wanted, but after I made a little money, my grandfather was old enough to fly.
I remember that before my grandmother died, our family had always been very poor. Five people were crowded into a small rental house of 90 square meters. There were three beds in the living room, one big, two small, big for Mom and Dad, and one for me and one for my sister. Grandma lives next to our bedroom, a bedroom smaller than the living room, and our living room has a teahouse in addition to the bed, plus a black-and-white TV. The spare space in Grandma's room was full of goods. In such a small space, we lived for seven or eight years before the situation improved. But at that time, I was still young and did not know what was rich or poor. But since I moved to the new house, I had the concept of being poor and rich. Looking at the white walls, shiny floors, bright lights, huge color televisions and so on, I suddenly felt that the original residence was extremely unbearable. But Grandma died without living in the new house for a day, which is the regret of my father and mother all their lives.
Now I, like my parents at that time, live in a two-room dormitory with a pitiful salary, and my few wages are not enough for me to eat and drink. I often wonder when I can take my mother to her coveted Beijing. When can I buy a decent suit for my father? When can I buy a pearl necklace for my sister? At the thought of this, my tears kept spinning in my eyes. Ten years of cold window, and I didn't learn any good skills, so now I have to be forced by life, and it's really sad that I can't live at ease.
It is useless to complain about the past, but to seize the present, take the hope of your parents as the source of energy, and constantly improve yourself, your life will gradually improve. In fact, parents do not want much, often go home to have a look, I think is their most fervent look forward to, help mother rub shoulder, help father beat back, help father pour a cup of tea, help mother cook a meal, and so on, these simple emotional pay, more tangible than material gifts, more touching, when there is no money, pay more emotion, when rich, pay emotion at the same time, add some material surprises, I think these cumulative little things Will give parents a warm and beautiful old age, I think this is the so-called filial piety.
Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, do not think too complicated, as long as willing to work hard, some simple and considerate little things, can keep parents warm for a lifetime, in the pursuit of fame and wealth, do not forget the parents who are getting older, after all, family affection is more important than fame and wealth.
Author: 24 Flower letter
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