Love is a big gamble.

(1)

Lu Ying said that falling in love with Qinhuai is a bet, win the bet, win the love, lose the bet, lose yourself. The bet on love is so big that only the brave dare to gamble, and only the brave can win.

(2)

In high school, I was in Luying's next class, and the two of me often went for a walk on the school playground after evening self-study. One night, while passing by the basketball court, Luying suddenly stopped, pointed to the figure that kept moving with the basketball, and said to me, "do you want to bet?" I was confused: "what are you betting on?" "if I block him, he will like me." "how can you be so sure?" "it feels like."

Feeling should be the most unreliable thing in the world, but when I said the word "feeling" from Luying's mouth, I heard a kind of firmness.

When Luying made this bet, in fact, she didn't know that person at all. Luying just said that when she passed the playground every night, she would see him playing on the basketball court alone. At first, she was just curious about why someone would play ball in the big night. But slowly, there was a sweet feeling in my heart.

(III)

A week later, Luying told me cheerfully that the man's name was Qin Huai, from Class 2 of Science. Luying even knows all about constellations and blood types. "what's the use of asking so much? people don't know who you are?" I said. "I will. You see, I'm going to get the QQ number." Lu Ying took out a small piece of paper with a string of numbers and showed it to me, then carefully spread it out and clamped it into the English book. Lu Ying's road to getting to know Qinhuai is extremely bumpy. It took two months to add QQ alone. After Luying was refused to add QQ for the first time, she said to me, "do you want to bet?" I'm sure we can add it in two months. " Then every night after self-study, Luying will add a QQ of Qinhuai, and will attach a sentence: "Hello, Qin, I am Chen Luying from Class 3 of Liberal Arts." Add on time at 09:30 every night, the thunder does not move, in the 23 days of the month, Qin Huai finally agreed to the friend request. Thus Luying won the first game of her love bet.

After adding friends, the first thing Qin Huai said to Lu Ying was: "what on earth do you want?" Luying said, "No matter what, I'm sure to win anyway." Qin Huai didn't understand what Lu Ying was talking about winning, and he didn't bother to talk about it. Since then, Lu Ying will watch Qin Huai play next to the basketball court every night. Lu Ying will come to every game of Qin Huai. Everyone else will stand in the shade of the tree. Lu Ying will look at the side of the court against a big sun. Lu Ying will run whichever way Qin Huai runs. She said that she could see more clearly, and then wrote down with a pen how many three points Qin Huai shot and rebounded, and reported to him one by one in the evening. At first, Qin Huai came by her, but slowly Qin Huai felt the strange eyes of her classmates and began to be a little impatient. She told Lu Ying not to come again. Lu Ying looked at Qin Huai with a straight face and bowed her head and did not speak, but in the next game, Lu Ying appeared on the edge of the basketball court on time. Not only that, Luying will buy breakfast for Qin Huai on time every morning and put it on his table, and say good night to Qin Huai on time in the evening. Breakfast will be thrown into the dustbin by Qinhuai, a good night every day, and never got a reply. But Luying still does it every day. Girls are brave to chase boys, which is understandable, but as a good friend of Lu Ying, I can't stand it any more. It's not that no one wants it. Why should I take my own hot face and stick to other people's cold buttocks so humbly every day? When I said righteous words, Luying looked at me with a bad smile and said, "Love is a bet for the brave. I will win the bet, believe me." Luying continued: "Scientific research shows that a thing will form a habit after more than 21 days of repetition, and 85 days of repetition will form a stable habit." I appear in front of Qin Huai every day, although he is disgusted now, but slowly I will become a habit in his life. At that time, he had to be me. " When Luying said this, she looked out of the window and her eyes were full of expectations for love.

(4)

On the third day of Luying's acute appendicitis in hospital, when Qin Huai came to me to ask Luying about her condition, I knew that Luying's strategy of habit theory had achieved initial success. Later, Qin Huai and I went to the hospital to see Luying. Although he still looked aloof and aloof, his eyes began to show a trace of tenderness.

Luying had an illness, but she was blessed by misfortune. On the morning of the first day after Luying returned to school, Qin Huai bought breakfast and put it on her desk. I still remember Luying jumping happily with the bag of bread and milk, and the box of milk was kept on the table because she was reluctant to drink it. It's long past its expiration date, but she still keeps it. Later, Luying and Qinhuai got closer and closer, until one day Luying happily told me that she was with Qinhuai. I am happy to say: "Luying, you won the bet, Qin Huai likes you." When I finished saying this, the smile on Luying's face dimmed a lot, and after a while, it was full of smiles. I watched Qin Huai's rejection of Luying from the beginning to come together now. Luying has been using her courage and efforts to win gambles again and again.

(5)

Lu Ying is a good student with excellent grades, but Qin Huai's grades are always at the bottom. In Qin Huai's life, besides basketball, it is a game. Every time Qin Huai skipped class and went to the Internet bar, Lu Ying would be very angry. They quarreled countless times because of this, but Qin Huai was still the same, but did not change. Once, Lu Ying and Qin Huai made an appointment to have dinner together at seven o'clock, but Lu Ying did not show up until 09:00 and did not answer the phone. Looking at Qinhuai's bloodshot eyes the next day, Lu Ying understood that he had played an all-night game. He forgot to make an appointment with himself because of the game, so he could not even compete with a game. That night, Luying cried for a long time. Luying has always been a very brave girl. I always thought that a brave girl would not cry, but after that, I realized that a brave girl did not shed tears easily, and once she shed tears, she could never get it back. Lu Ying, with tears in the corner of her eye, said to me, "actually, I haven't won the bet yet. Qin Huai is just with me, but he hasn't fallen in love with me yet." With that, Luying told me that she was going to be with Qinhuai. I was surprised that Qinhuai had worked so hard to catch it, but Luying was very determined to break up, no matter how Qinhuai retained it. Later, Luying told me that it was the biggest bet she had ever made in love, winning the love and losing herself. After the breakup, Lu Ying also began to learn to play games. What games Qin Huai liked best, Lu Ying learned to learn what games to play, learned to practice at home, and asked people to go to Internet cafes when she was done. And she specifically asked Qin Huai's good friends to know that if you can play, so can I. Later, whenever Qin Huai went to the Internet bar, she went and sat near Qinhuai. Lu Ying said that she will never forget the look on her face when Qin Huai first saw her in an Internet bar. Qin Huai saw Luying and pulled her out of the Internet bar door, scolded her severely, told her not to play games, what games girls play. Lu Ying looked at Qin Huai's ferocious face because she was angry and said, "Why can you play, you can play, I can also play, I play mine, you play yours, no one gets in the way." Luying turned and left, but Qin Huai stood there blankly all the time. He probably never thought that Luying, who used to revolve around him every day and only learn every day, would say such a thing.

In the mid-term exam after that, Luying's score fell from the top ten in the grade to the bottom in an instant. I was very worried, but Lu Ying said: "I was deliberately poor in the exam, you can rest assured, I play the game is deliberately played for Qin Huai to see, my grades are good, did not decline." After the mid-term exam results were announced, Qin Huai asked Luying out. He has been taking painstaking efforts to persuade Luying to study hard and not to play games. Lu Ying said, "it's OK not to play, but why can you play? I can't. This way, if you don't play, I won't play. It's fair that you play and I also play." Qin Huai looked at the firm face of Luying in front of her, so she had to agree. Later, slowly, Qin Huai skipped classes and went to Internet cafes less often, and sometimes even accompanied Lu Ying to go to self-study. Lu Ying would also pretend to inadvertently delineate the key points of the exam for Qin Huai, occasionally telling him about the questions. Later, Qin Huai's performance is no longer at the bottom, the ranking began to lean forward bit by bit. I asked Luying: why do I have to force Qin Huai not to play games and let him learn? Because this has all broken up, aren't you afraid to miss Qinhuai like this? " Lu Ying said, "if you're afraid, don't gamble. If you want to gamble, don't be afraid." I want to be with Qin Huai for a lifetime, not for a while. if he is addicted to games and does not study, and will not go to college in the future, then our future will be really worrying. If I force him to study, it will do him no harm. If I do better in the college entrance examination, I will have more choices. Even if I can't go to another school, at least I can be in a city. " After listening to Luying say this, I was moved by her courage and wisdom, and more about her feelings for Qin and Huai.

(VI)

After graduating from high school, Lu Ying and Qin Huai were not in the same school, but they were still in the same city as Lu Ying wanted. When Lu Ying and Qin Huai attended the reunion in their junior year, I saw that Qin Huai had changed a lot. He was no longer aloof and recalcitrant, but a little more mature and stable. The relationship between them is no longer that Lu Ying asks Qin Huai to turn all day, but more that Qin Huai takes care of Lu Ying. During the meal, Qin Huai kept sandwiching her favorite dishes into Luying's bowl. when Lu Ying was not feeling well, she was also accompanied by Qin Huai to take care of her. When Lu Ying and Qin Huai walked together, she did not see anything in Luying's hand. Qinhuai was taking it all, and occasionally Qinhuai would prepare some little romance during festivals. The two became the focus of discussion after dinner. Everyone envied Luying that she had found such a good boyfriend and jokingly asked her to teach experience. "I don't have any experience, but I have to be bold and dare to gamble," Lu Ying said. "

(7)

In fact, as a witness to the love between Lu Ying and Qin Huai, I understand the mental journey of Lu Ying in this relationship. When Luying was chasing Qinhuai, she was brave enough to bet on herself. When Qinhuai was not mature enough, Luying also had the courage to invest his time and experience to wait and accompany him until he became mature and better and better. Now many girls, when looking for a boyfriend, will be very picky, always want to find a good one here or there, but where in this world there will be such a perfect thing. Every boy is not born mature and excellent, he needs someone to accompany him to experience, wait for him to mature. Tolerate him when he is reckless, enlighten him when he is ignorant, and accompany him when he is in trouble. When you meet him, he is not good enough, but when you are with him, you are willing to use your own time and experience to accompany him until he gets better. And for girls, this process is a bet, investing emotion and youth to accompany a person who is not good enough. If you win the bet, you win a better him, better love, lose the bet, you lose your emotion, lose your time, and lose yourself.

Love is the bet of the brave. If you want to win, you must have the courage to gamble.

Author: Yang Muge