If you don't know other people's lives, please don't criticize at will.
There is a fable about a pig, a sheep and a dairy cow being kept in the same corral. Once, the owner caught the pig, and the pig shouted loudly and resisted violently. The sheep and the cow hated its cry and said angrily, "you are exaggerating. He often comes to catch us, but we don't shout." After hearing this, the pig replied, "catching you and catching me are two different things. He only wants your hair and milk, but if he catches me, he will kill me!" The sheep and the cow were silent when they heard this.
The moral of this story is very profound. it shows that it is difficult for people with different positions and circumstances to understand each other's feelings. If we are good at looking at things from the position of others, we can understand others from the bottom of our hearts, be closer to and more in line with the facts, and it is also easy to have more compassion between people and make them easy to accept. In this way, there will be much less misunderstandings and contradictions between people. The same is true of people. If you can understand the cry of a pig, are you still willing to kill it? If you should be judged by the law, what about killing? They are also alive, from their standpoint, if you were killed, what would you do?
All the results in this world do not happen for no reason. Anyone who does anything has his own reasons and reasons. There are unknown joys and sorrows in anyone's life. The reason why some people always like to criticize others without asking questions is often because they do not understand the reasons behind it. Be sure to have a comprehensive understanding of the situation before you blame others. If you are eager to criticize and criticize indiscriminately, it is easy to cause harm to others. Therefore, we need to change the habit of making right and wrong judgments about other people's lives without analysis.
From another perspective, you will find that you are not the only protagonist in the world. There are thousands of people, everyone has his own story, everyone is the protagonist in his own story, no matter the story is mundane, or twists and turns, everyone has experienced a different story, or sad or happy. Life is impermanent, everyone will have tears and sorrow, we should learn to appreciate and compassion, learn to be kind to others, after all, life is not easy for anyone.
There is a story: after receiving a call from an emergency operation, a doctor rushed to the hospital as quickly as possible and changed into surgical clothes. The boy's father shouted to him out of control, "Why are you so late?" Don't you know my son is in danger? You have no sense of responsibility at all. The doctor smiled calmly and said, "I'm sorry, I wasn't in the hospital just now. I came as soon as I got the call. Please calm down." Calm down? If your son is lying in the operating room, will you calm down? What would happen to you if your son died now? The boy's father said angrily.
The doctor smiled calmly and said: I will recite the Bible: & lsquo; We come from the dust, and we all return to the dust. Blessing is the name of the Lord. & rsquo; Please pray for your son! The boy's father said angrily: when a person is indifferent to the life and death of others, he will say so. A few hours later, when the operation was successfully completed, the doctor happily came out of the operating room and said to the boy's father, "Thank God, your son has been saved!" Before the boy's father answered, he hurried away and said, "if you have any questions, you can ask the nurse!" Why is he so arrogant? Can't he wait a few minutes for me to ask about my son? The boy's father said angrily to the nurse.
The nurse burst into tears: his son died in a traffic accident yesterday. When we asked him to operate on your son, he was on his way to the funeral home, and now he has saved your son's life. To finish his son's funeral.
What happened in other people's lives, what kind of twists and turns and tribulations they are going through, you may not know from your own standpoint, what you see is just the appearance.
Do not blame others easily, because we do not have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of other people's lives and to truly understand the joys and sorrows of others. Because of their different positions and circumstances, it is difficult to understand each other's feelings. Therefore, do not blindly criticize and criticize at will, otherwise it will bring harm to others.
A truly literate person who can achieve others with kindness, love and tolerance is actually achieving himself. A person who can know how to extricate himself from the phenomenon is the one who really understands self-cultivation. Think about the bitterness of our mental journey in order to know the sufferings of others. Think of us, how many unknown sadness and suffering, we know that other people's lives actually have the same content, but also experience ups and downs on the road of life. Think about how we have walked through the ups and downs, we will know how others have gone through the ups and downs. A person who really understands self-cultivation should understand the use and harm of language and know not to look at the problem unilaterally from his own point of view, so that the harm between people will be reduced a lot.
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