Clumsy wisdom: the mind is clear, the surface is confused.
The highest state of life is to be simple and clumsy. He knows everything, but he looks stupid and stubborn.
This kind of person is not publicity, not superior, approachable, but more likely to be welcomed by the public. Society is very realistic, and the human heart is even more unpredictable. When you show your edge, you are envied, so why?
To show off yourself is nothing more than to make people look up at you for the sake of vanity and light on your face, but when you are excluded from officialdom and the workplace and cannot splash as much as you like, I wonder if you are smart enough to cause disaster.
Dumb wisdom: don't be brave, no matter how short you are.
There are not a few people who suffer by speaking. To investigate the reason, nothing but love to show sharp teeth, love to talk about the length of people, gossip. And the people who are most wronged are those who have been unintentional, have been hearsay and taken out of context, resulting in eternal hatred.
So, if you speak carefully from the beginning, can you avoid a lot of trouble? In dealing with the world, never forget that evil comes from the mouth.
The wisdom of forbearance: know the male and the female, and take retreat as progress.
The real heroes are those who can stretch and bend. No one has been successful all his life, so it is worth exuberant when he is proud.
When you are frustrated, you can't be depressed blindly. You should save up your strength and wait for a comeback. Only with the patience at this time can we taste all the flavors of life. When frustrated, the patience is to know the male and female, to retreat into progress.
The wisdom of tolerance: harmony is the most precious, tolerance and magnanimity
Confusion is a kind of tolerance, it can be rubbed into the sand in the eyes, and it is magnanimous and magnanimous.
Forgive people and forgive people, many friends, many ways. When you tolerate others, you accumulate human feelings for yourself. If the sea accepts all rivers, there is great tolerance; if a man is tolerant, it is easy to make a plan.
The wisdom of being a man: foolishness on the surface, shrewdness on the inside
To observe, there are no apprentices, so people can not be too shrewd, too concerned, usually a little confused, leaving people leeway, is the road to win-win.
Of course, you can be confused on the surface, but you have to make an abacus in your mind and adjust yourself from time to time. Look far away, do not focus on other people's shortcomings, to know how to eat small losses in order to make a big profit in a hurry.
The wisdom of survival: flexibility, leisurely and prudent
I went to visit the Zen master alone. The door of the Zen courtyard was so short that he didn't notice it. As a result, the Zen master touched his head and said to him, "if you don't touch your head, you must learn to bow your head."
It's the same with people.
The wisdom of communication: be good at being confused and be popular.
In social situations, it is true or false, and there is no distinction between the false and the real. Some of other people's words can be taken seriously, while others are not.
A person who is good at being confused can be friends with anyone, and even the offense of others can be faced with a smile. If you don't take everything seriously, you can avoid conflicts and have a relationship with each other.
Wisdom in doing things: deliberately showing weakness and pretending to be confused
Horses stumble, people stumble, behave in the world, can you not be careful? A small fall hurts a little, but a big fall is not just a pain.
What should be understood is: if you deliberately show weakness and pretend to be confused at the beginning, can't you avoid standing high and falling in pain?
The wisdom of self-cultivation: a sense of life and contentment.
Muddle-headed outlook on life is to have an outlook on life, contentment is always happy, he can see everything, so he is not surprised, calm and happy. If you want to be optimistic, you have to have a normal heart.
Let nature take its course, do not care about right and wrong, smile to see the pre-court flowers bloom and fall. Life is less than a hundred, why worry about a thousand years old? Unpleasant things in life, can forget, do not ask for anything, is not also very chic?
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