Who is the judge of life?

It is said that it is difficult for honest officials to judge household chores, and that every family has its own difficulties.

In my opinion, housework is not difficult to judge, nor is it difficult to read the family's classics. In fact, this is a psychological war play directed and performed by the life judge.

If you don't believe it, you will know who is the judge and who is the black sheep.

There is a family, the parents gave birth to seven sons, just like the cucurbit, each has its own strengths, but also unity and friendship. Their brothers went to the city to open a fast food restaurant, named Brother's Restaurant, where several brothers and daughters worked together.

At the beginning of this year, due to various reasons, only one of the brothers' wives were left to work in the shop, and she should have been admired and praised for taking care of a child. However, she was criticized and abused. Why do you think that is?

In reality, she does no more or less work, but a word from her does harm to anyone who can do the dishes by herself, and I do it according to the rules. What she doesn't know is that everyone in the store works very hard, never complains, and even does more chores and tiredness than she does.

However, she always shows a look of how tired and unhappy she is, which makes others who do more than her angry. But no one would argue with her about it and regard her as a woman's opinion.

On this day, she was anxious to go shopping and did not mention to anyone that she wanted to go out, so she did her so-called work ahead of time, and her face was unwilling to let the boss of the family next to her see it angrily, so he quarreled with her. This time the quarrel was very fierce, and each had his own arguments. The woman said that the words in the store should have been clearly separated and responsible, and no one saw me when I did more work. When I do less or something wrong, people make a mountain out of a molehill and don't like me.

The boss said that when you work in the store, you should not divide who is more or less, and you should do what you can according to your own ability and time. Even if you are gluttonous and lazy, you always lose my brother's work, and you always do things with emotion. Who do you show that emotion to? Dare to say that people don't like you! Thus began to tear the face of the quarrel, and even all kinds of abuse of each other.

The woman's husband could not see his wife's disrespect to his brother, so he came forward and slapped her. The woman cried and said, "I want a divorce!" Left the baby and walked out of the store. Everyone thought she didn't care when she went back to the dormitory. A few hours later, no one answered her husband's phone and no one in the dormitory. Everyone began to call her in turn. She occasionally answered the phone from her uncle and lied about being in the dormitory. Apart from the eldest brother who quarreled with her, everyone was worried about what would happen to her. Keep calling and looking for her.

Through this incident, it is enough to prove that all kinds of attitudes and complaints of this woman are a bad state of mind, always feel that others do not like her, how can they suffer?

If she treats everyone as family, if she wants to go out and have respect for others to tell people in advance, I believe everyone will not catch her to work, but will each do more to let her out, and will not be misunderstood by her attitude that she can't wait to get things done. And she took the misunderstanding as a prejudice against herself.

The state of mind has influenced her mind and controlled her judgment of right and wrong. The judge she wants to administer justice should find herself.

In a family, if everyone loves everyone, then everyone will consciously share the family chores for the family, and there is no need to care about who does not pay or work.

As large as the enterprise, as small as the unit, the hearts of the people are United, the mentality is correct, and the whole can be seen in terms of efficiency.

Some people who think they are smart, in fact, your so-called troubles and grievances are all caused by you, and you lose to your own crooked mentality. Correct your mindset and reconsider yourself so that you can be a judge!

Author: Aiko