If you only see appearances when you are in love, then what you see in marriage is the truth precipitated through time.
When the mundane life makes each other farther away, it is the responsibility to make the two hearts from far away to close, from the passionate acceptance of the new life to the moment when tired want to escape from reality, begin to doubt the so-called choice.
I once thought that I would give up everything and wander around the world with my partner who I thought could accompany me all my life, even if he didn't get the blessing of his relatives and friends, even if he had nothing, as long as he had a heart to share joys and sorrows, because he was young, he bet on his youth and finally got his wish and came together, thinking that it was the ideal happiness.
In fact, after constantly fantasizing and beautifying each other's advantages, we find that the distance between reality and ideal is so far away that the inner imbalance and loss follow, without the original firm belief and the edges and corners that have been smoothed out by life. a tired heart can only see that the world has changed and that it is still wandering between the origin and the end.
Is not satisfied with the status quo, or struggling for the original dream, lost the vision of the past, some entanglement, try to comfort themselves with a trembling heart, even if bitter, even tired, even if the two hearts do not melt just, even if all people look at it with strange eyes, or choose to compromise, slowly helpless into habit, habit into numbness, disappearing day by day in numbness. Occasionally I can hear another voice from the bottom of my heart plucking my heartstrings; dear, I understand you, dear, I love you, I will always be with you. Like a dream is not a dream, revel in it.
It is another inadvertent dusk, the moment the sunset reflects the red earth, I understand that the sun is so reluctant to give up the tenderness of the earth, using the last gentle beam, but also to look back on the beauty of the earth, then we should cherish what we have now.
The cup of wine in life is bitter or sweet. Everyone tastes it and has all kinds of flavors. More feelings will be sad, more sad into complaints, earthly fairy tale love, royal and aristocratic life, in reality there are a few, can yearn for, do not be confused. There is a good saying: people outside the deep palace yearn for the splendor and wealth of the palace, while people in the palace envy the freedom of outsiders. We are not parties, and we cannot understand their feelings. The reason is very simple. When we admire the happiness of others, we are also being admired by others. Careful choice in a short life, wrong choice is the greatest personal tragedy.
It is easy for us to read other people's stories, but we wander in the fog. As the saying goes, search hard in a dream, wake up and smile for a floating life.
Author: lonely Dream Youran
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