You just forgot to change.

You are afraid that the pace of life is out of your control because you don't trust yourself to deal with sudden situations. When life is not part of the plan, you become anxious, restless, and even irritable. It's not because you're scared, because you're anxious, and some things won't happen. When you begin to study physics, you are told that all objects are moving and there is no absolute stillness. You start to tell yourself that everything will change, including everything, so you have to get used to it and let it have a minimal impact on yourself.

It's just that everything doesn't let nature take its course, when you find that the person you think has always loved you is ready to turn around. You still can not accept, you think the bright sun becomes dazzling, you think the blue sky becomes unfathomable, all the beautiful appearance becomes ferocious. Whether you want to accept all this ferocious and unpredictable, life still has to go on. Time still has to swagger by. Yes, accept all the changes, you will be depressed, sad, and even cry. Because you enjoy life without surprises, you don't think that sudden small changes will destroy you.

So, do you need to change, too? Although there is no absolute stillness, in the theory of relativity, there is relative stillness. Then you may have this relative stillness when you change your attitude and way of life. And you are willing to immerse yourself in such a change. Make yourself miserable and uncomfortable to compare the happiness and happiness of those days.

However, time likes to play such jokes, and is not prepared to take back such jokes. So why not play with the time? You only need to change a little to keep relatively still.

You may say, those days, that person, those things, you really can't forget. But why forget. You can't appreciate how relieved and secure you are when you are relatively still. And you want to tie those gratitude to the unhappiness you are now. He turned around anyway. You can't forget those days with him, and you even can't sleep at night. You think about why all day long, you live in memory all day. But you forget that time is still running, and you won't look back and pity and wait for you who forget yourself. You think that your nostalgia for the past is just an expression that you really loved him, but he has left and is far away.

So are you still standing where you are? Try to change yourself. Live your life in a different way. Maybe you will find another kind of surprise. Perhaps, you will find that the life after the change is not as bad as you think. The sun can still be so bright, and the sky can be blue to deep. As long as you are willing to accept such a change. And change yourself. The life that has been changed suddenly is not so terrible. The scary thing is that your life has changed, but you don't want to change yourself.