Human nature is stubborn, and it is difficult to bow.
If you do not know how to bow your head at the right time in the face of reality, there will not be much achievement in life. Knowing how to bow your head at the right time is a kind of ingenious wisdom and steady maturity.
When the millet matures, it bows its head, and the sunflower mature and lowers its head, holding its head high to absorb positive energy and to avoid dangerous collisions. If you do not bow your head, it will not mature, the wind will break it, the rain will rot it, and the birds will satisfy their hunger with the fruit as food, and only the empty blighted seeds will hold their heads high in the wind.
This is also the case in life, when it is just and easy to fold, the softest is undamaged, and the best choice is to be as good as water. It is the best choice to facilitate all things, and only when you can be high and low, can you bend and stretch, can you go smoothly in the long run.
The so-called bow is a timely choice, those who keep abreast of the times are handsome; the so-called maturity is also dialectical and can not blindly pursue an immutable attitude.
In life, if you blindly hold your head high, it will give people a feeling of arrogance and invincibility, and keep people at a distance. Over time, people will feel that this is a kind of arrogance and arrogance that is arrogant and defiant and will not be recognized or excluded.
In reality, if you keep your head down blindly, it will give people a feeling of cowardice, incompetence, timidity, and others will take advantage of the opportunity to bully and suppress. Over time, it will be looked down upon by people and treated as an alternative.
Timely bow is not only an action, but also a kind of wisdom, an open-minded mind and a state of forbearance; timely bow is not cowardice, but the foresight of "keeping Castle Peak not afraid of firewood."
And the sign of maturity, is a soft state of a hundred steel around the fingers, know when to hold your head high, know when to bow, softness and strength, advance and retreat, it is a kind of humble posture.
As the saying goes, "only when you know how to bow your head can you stand out." Sometimes slightly lower the head, is a kind of tolerance, is a kind of calm, is a kind of competition to avoid, is a kind of survival wisdom, leave a little opportunity to exist, will have the possibility of coming to the fore.
Sometimes, look down to see their own happiness, to see their own shortcomings, look up to the happiness is not happiness, look down, the most ordinary life around is full of true happiness; if you always hold your head high, will not see your own shortcomings, timely bow your head to think, reflect on yourself, find deficiencies, in order to improve yourself.
Some people, disdain to bow their heads, go straight, stick to it, and always pursue the spirit of "better broken than complete". In the end, they hurt others and ruined themselves. Some people regard bowing their head as a disgrace and withdrawal, and always feel that being tough, fierce and straight is the work of heroes and the practice of tough men.
Do things rampant, sharp, but do not know that even the hardest bow, pull too full will be broken, do not know that even the most beautiful moon, there will be a natural way of profit and loss.
Timely bow is the need for our life to be flexible and resilient, the avoidance of bow is to move forward more firmly, Gou Jian suffers from hardships and hardships, and Han Xin suffers from the humiliation of his crotch. These allusions fully demonstrate the wisdom of "small impatience leads to chaos and great planning".
Life is not always satisfactory, unexpected events in the sky, not all will be frustrated, will ask for help, will bend down, bend down, bow down. In fact, this is all harmless. As long as you have your own bottom line to be a man and do things, you will not lose face and dignity, and you can only be more calm if you can "save face and suffer."
Timely bow is a sign of maturity, a kind of wisdom of trade-off, not an unprincipled compromise, but rational tolerance and patience, not unconditional accommodation, but conscious humility and detour, is a kind of ingenious human practice.
It takes courage to bow your head at the right time. This kind of bow is a kind of peaceful persistence, for victory, and the courage to make some sacrifices. It is a kind of humility that looks foolish and a qualification to success.
Timely bow is a wise choice, through a door, climbing a mountain, we all need to bow, when a stick swept over, we will naturally choose to bow our head and lower our posture, otherwise, the injured must be the self-righteous tough guy.
Know how to bow, will see the road under their feet, know how to bow, the roadside wildflowers will be your encouragement, know how to bow, can endure humiliation, know how to bow, bow will see the sky in the water, know how to bow, but also the demeanor and recuperation of life. Know how to bow, also know not to bow, in the face of money, fate, dignitaries, evil, difficulties, personality, we must not yield, absolutely must not bow, otherwise, we will fall into it and become slaves for life.
Mature people will not let their heads break, but those who know how to bow their heads will not put all their eggs in one basket in the face of despair, but choose to take a step back and bow their heads cleverly, which is not only a strategy, but also a kind of wisdom.
The road of life is full of thorns. I believe in being a low-key person and believe in the saying "humble bamboo has low head leaves, proud plum has no flowers on its back". Perhaps, our life will go more smoothly and longer, and our life will also have tolerance, magnanimous maturity and wisdom.
If a person is in the trough and under the eaves, when he is unable to return to the sky, he might as well bow his head. Perhaps, when he bows his head, there is a glimmer of light. If he knows how to bow his head at the right time in life, there will be more tenacity, tension and maturity in life.
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