People often judge a man's grade by rank and talent, and a woman's grade by appearance and temperament, but few people think about the grade of the soul. The mind has a class. And its grade determines the success or failure of a person's life.
The highest state of the mind is awe.
Like faith and religion, that piety is unshakable. Businessmen stress honesty, friends stress sincerity, lovers stress sincerity, why should this be so? Because of the wind of the world, these basic things have to be brought out to talk about, and the lack of it is the reason to ask for it. How beautiful the world would be if everyone had an instinctive awe of rules, rules and ethics, trustworthiness in business, justice in office, reasoning in groups, and loyalty in affection.
If a man has a heart of awe, he must be the best. He must have a smooth career, happy love, a virtuous wife and a filial son, and a wide range of friends. If a woman has a heart of awe, she must be the best. She must have both talents and skills, extraordinary temperament and benevolence, which is rare in the world.
The second realm of the mind is compassion.
Some people say that the progress of a society is the progress of compassion. I think it is very reasonable. In every society, there are the weak. In ancient times, the law of the jungle began to eat the jungle. Today, the progress of the times still advocates that big fish eat small fish and small fish eat shrimp. And the real strength is the strength of the soul, the tolerance of the sea, and the momentum of respecting moral people. Everyone is destined to go his own way from the day he was born, some are long, some are short, some are successful, some fail, and some fail a thousand times.
No matter what the road is, it will be empty in the end. The value of life lies in being needed by others, just as the value of money lies in its use. People need to be compassionate, to do as much as possible for others, even trivial things, is also the embodiment of the value of life.
A man with compassion is the best, he must be kind-hearted, kind-hearted, humble and gentlemanly, while a woman with compassion is also high-grade, knowledgeable, intelligent and virtuous, with ladylike demeanor.
The third realm of the mind is gratitude.
Some time ago, I saw a piece of news that an old man sued his seven children for failing to support them. It hurts after reading it, and this sad thing can be found everywhere. If a person is not even grateful for his own parents, what else can he do for society? Parents gave us life, love all to us, the world to us, how to have the heart to let their vicissitudes of heart bitter tears?
Those who do not love others go against virtue, those who do not respect others disobey courtesy, and gratitude comes from filial piety. A man who knows how to be grateful is a finished product, a responsible and trustworthy partner, and a man to be relied on; a woman who knows how to be grateful is also a finished product. She must be a good woman who is diligent and motivated and loves her family and her son.
The fourth realm of the mind is the heart of tolerance.
Tolerant of others, tolerant of yourself, the water is not deep, tolerance is great. Everyone can not live a calm life, will encounter ups and downs and twists and turns, people and things in the past will indeed lead to our bitterness. Forgive them, forgive others is to be kind to yourself, because resentment can only deepen the harm to yourself.
When we were growing up, we did a lot of wrong things because we didn't go through the world, some of which could be saved, some of which could not be made up for. Forgive your past, because to tolerate your past is to be kind to your future and take the past experience as a gift of life, so that your future life can be more wonderful. Isn't it? why don't you know the value of life until the last day of your life? To be able to live well should be content!
The mind has a grade, and the grade of the soul determines the personality, determines the character, and determines the fate of one's life.
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