Low-quality social interaction is not as good as high-quality solitude.

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When I was young, I liked to make a lot of friends.

At that time, I believed in this saying very much. I depended on my parents at home and my friends when I went out.

However, I gradually found that too many of the so-called friends belong to eating, drinking, boasting and gossiping. Once I really encounter something difficult, I look back and find that there are few people around me.

After a long time, I gradually know what kind of person I want to meet, and once I don't like someone, I will never like him again.

Socializing is a part of normal life, but low-quality socializing is not as good as high-quality solitude!

A friend of mine is trying to subtract from life, reduce the number of friends, reduce unnecessary social interaction, reduce unnecessary emotional input, and save time costs to run their own business.

After a period of time, he found that not only nothing had been delayed, but his life was much quieter.

So don't be afraid of having few friends. Ten fair-weather friends are not as good as a brother in need. Not everyone can be friends, and there are not many friends.

02

In today's society, many people feel that human feelings are getting colder and lose their former enthusiasm and easygoing.

The personalities of the people around them are different, it is difficult to find people who are congenial to them, and what is more sad is that there are many people who can't talk to him at all, let alone become friends.

In recent years, the number of my friends is getting smaller and smaller, but the quality is getting higher and higher. Because I don't make friends by quantity, but by quality, low-quality social interaction is not as good as high-quality solitude.

From an early age, we are taught to be good, to be United, and to be likable, but it usually turns out to be deliberately pleasing in order to gain more recognition from others.

The so-called mediocrity is because you are too gregarious and deliberately hide your edge in order to take into account the aesthetic appreciation of the public.

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Adult social interaction is often mixed with some interests, in order to enter the circle of people who are stronger than themselves, do not hesitate to refresh their bottom line again and again, and gradually lose their original self.

At the end of the day, you are still out of the circle and not integrated into it at all.

Instead of sharpening your head and trying to squeeze into a circle that doesn't belong to you, enjoy being alone and enrich yourself with the time you waste socializing.

Go to the bookstore to choose some favorite books and roam in the ocean of knowledge

Learning a foreign language may become a ladder for your promotion in the future.

Go to the gym at the weekend to exercise, experience the pleasure of sweating wantonly, so that you have a strong physique to meet the challenges of life.

Don't wait for the opportunity to come, but you can't take it because you are incompetent.

So stop wasting time on low-quality socializing, cherish your time alone, and try to be the best you can be.

You will find that when you become good, your circle of friends will become better, and there will be more real friends around you.

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