Middle-aged life is like making tea: once water, twice tea, three times and four times is the essence.
01
Believe more in affection and less in love
The most important thing in life is family affection.
There are two kinds of affection, one comes from the bond of blood, the other comes from the bond of marriage. Both have a common name: family.
Wang Xiaobo said: when people are young, they feel that there are people everywhere, and other people's business is your business. When they are middle-aged, they feel that there is nothing in the world but their families.
That's true. When people reach middle age, nothing is more important than family or affection.
For middle-aged people with stable marriages, the love between them has turned into affection, relying on each other, supporting each other, and even closer than brothers and sisters.
From this point, marriage is not the grave of love, but the sublimation of love.
If you already have such an affection, then, do not believe in little fresh meat Lori's love, do not fantasize about being able to cheat on the second spring.
Because, the other party will not really fall in love with your aging body, what you get can never be the truth.
To say the least, even if the relationship is real, even if it can be cultivated into a positive fruit in the future, it will eventually be transformed into affection.
At that time, we will return to the starting point of the problem.
However, in the process of hurting too many people, let oneself also become exhausted.
02
Believe more in health and less in career
There is a joke that women must be nice to themselves. Once tired to death, another woman will spend your money, live in your room, sleep with your husband, and beat your baby!
In fact, this is true for both men and women. Tired body, everything is empty.
Middle-aged people should begin to understand the importance of health and better understand that health is 1 and everything else is 0.
Most of the time, the career is for others, health is our own, without this smelly skin, we are nothing.
As the saying goes, you are a root grass at work and a pillar at home.
Everyone in the unit will operate without anyone, and the family will fall apart without you.
The body of a middle-aged man is like a car that has been driven for seven or eight years. Although it still feels full of power, minor ailments begin to appear.
Careful maintenance, do not overhaul, do not break down, is the capital to continue to run.
03
Believe more in the present and less in the future
There is no doubt at forty and destiny at fifty.
When people reach middle age, they will no longer care about the many temptations of the outside world; when they reach middle age, they also understand that living in the present is the way of life.
The future of young people is pink, and the future of middle-aged people is the color of reality.
Middle-aged people no longer have a lot of youth and energy to squander, and they will no longer believe in the promises of the future.
The bell of middle age keeps ringing in our ears, telling us only four words: time waits for no man.
If the parents are alive, go filial piety immediately, do not delay every minute, because do not know which day, it will be late.
If you have any unfulfilled wishes, hurry to realize them, otherwise you will grow old in a twinkling of an eye.
In middle-aged life, you should know what you want, what you have, and what you can get.
To learn to give up and live well in the present is the most rational choice.
Middle-aged life is like making tea three times. Once water, two times tea, three times four times is the essence. They are more experienced than the young and more energetic than the old, which is the best season.
Remember this three more than three little, not greedy, not love, not Xu not anxious, cherish all, tranquil life, elegant and calm, in order to taste the true taste.
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