The most distressing thing in the world of love is not that you love him but he loves her, but that one party does not love the other and is still entangled.
When you love, you really love, and when you don't love, you really don't love. You don't need a reason to love someone, and you don't need a reason to love someone. When he says he doesn't love, why not smile and bless and turn around chic? If love loses, don't even lose your self-esteem.
But the crazy men and women caught up in love often lose their self-esteem at the same time. When he starts to say he doesn't love, you don't believe, you don't believe that it's all true, you don't believe that he really doesn't love you, ask him again and again why. In fact, you know, do not love and love are the same as there is no reason, but you are not reconciled, or deceive yourself to ask why.
You cry, you are sad, you are sad, you are heartache, you numb yourself day and night, do not eat, do not sleep, call him again and again, even if the other end always refuses to answer, send text messages, even if there is no reply, look at his gray QQ profile picture in a daze, write him a long letter, you are even desperate to find him, you beg him to give you another chance, beg him to give your relationship another chance. You will do whatever you are told as long as you can still be together. You bow your head and humbly beg him to stay and love you again.
Do you know that your tears are worthless in his eyes, your sadness is absolutely indifferent, your phone messages will only upset him, your long letters will not have the patience to read, the way you beg him will bore him, and your humble appearance will make him despise.
Everything about you will only quicken the pace at which he leaves you.
Think from another point of view, since one side is no longer in love, the Libra of love is unbalanced, and the places of the two sides are already unequal. If he is willing to look back at this time, can you really go back to the past? He is no longer in love, and in the days to come, you must be careful not to leave him again. Giving in everywhere will only make you black and blue. Is this kind of love really what you want?
Why not leave your tears to those who cherish them? Leave your love to the next person who knows how to cherish you. Your love is already a burden to him, your entanglement is a pain to him, he just wants to leave as soon as possible, end as soon as possible, your heartache can not make him stop to pity you, everything about you is a burden to him. Dry your tears, tidy up your mood, put your love back, hold your head high and give him a beautiful back.
In the world of love, there is no one who is right or wrong, only who does not know how to cherish others. He does not love, do not hate him, hate will only make yourself more painful. Please stop saying silly things like begging you to give me another chance. He doesn't need your love anymore. Please don't say that I can't live without such childish words as you. Everyone in this world is their own, and no one can live without them. Please do not say that I will always love you, but please do not leave me such unreasonable words, how do you know that you will not fall in love with someone else tomorrow?
Wake up, the other person is not in love, don't cry, don't beg, I don't think you want to be as annoying as a tail-wagging puppy. Bless him with a smile and keep your dignity to yourself.
You can't control love, but your dignity always belongs to you, and you can't lose it at any time. No love, please leave some self-respect for yourself.
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