When people take a walk in the world, they always meet people they like and people they don't like. Some people are tired of getting along with him, so don't continue to get along with him.
The older you are, the more you can understand the ruthlessness and harshness of the years, and it is already a great happiness to meet the right person.
With whom, do not worry about tall, short, fat and thin, do not worry about the financial background, as long as appropriate, do not easily miss. Because the rest of my life is not long, who I am with is really important.
Stay away from the people who consume you.
It's important to be with someone who can make you better, but it's more important to be with someone who can make you better for each other.
If you realize that your positive energy is not strong enough to resist negative energy, learn to stay away from negative energy first.
Don't spend time with people who play with your heart.
People who are full of hearts and minds are generally selfish people. If you give him a piece of candy, he will suspect that it will become dynamite. If you lend him an umbrella, he will not return it when your world is stormy.
He doesn't think about your feelings and thoughts, he only cares about his own mood.
To be with someone who knows filial piety
A truly filial person, must know responsibility, know how to think, know how to cherish, know how to be grateful, such a person is the most acceptable.
Parents are the people who give their own life, if even their parents can not be filial piety and respect, let alone other people?
Be with someone you can talk to.
Don't talk to you again, he wants to talk to you, because he doesn't understand you.
Talking to each other is the basis of communication between two people. only those who can talk to each other can understand your interests and your joy, and each other can find the joy of life.
Be with people who support and encourage you.
How many seemingly ironclad relationships end up being out of touch with each other.
Communication is not a profit-making tool. Find someone who appreciates and supports you. If you make a mistake, he understands your grievance; if you succeed, he understands that it is not easy for you.
With people who are sincere and kind.
You don't have to make bad friends for the sake of power, career, and money.
Only sincere friendship has the meaning of existence, sincere people will care about your ideas and future, if we are like a rainbow, we will only know when we meet. It's never too late to meet someone who is good for you.
Don't be with hypocritical people.
Bacon said:
Hypocritical people are despised by wise men, admired by fools, worshipped by flatterers, and enslaved by their own vanity.
The hypocritical person is used to lying and flattering. He pretends to be nice to you when you are good, but disappears without a trace when you need help.
Hypocrisy is the poison of friendship. With such a person, it is easy to have nothing.
If people live for decades, there will be everyone, and not everyone will be friendly to you for no reason, so if you get tired of getting along with these people, you might as well never communicate with each other again.
Find someone who is comfortable with each other
You must have had this experience:
When I chat with some people, I always feel happy and full of meaning. No matter how many troubles I have in my heart, I seem to be out of my mind. Time always goes by at once. I really look forward to chatting with him next time.
Chatting with some people, they have no choice but to listen to each other's complaints all the time, from work to life, from friends to family, from the past to the present, and then to the future, from himself to the social state, as if everything in his life is not satisfactory to him.
You will be clouded by him when you are in a good mood, and you may never want to see him again.
When you are with a comfortable person, you will feel comfortable and casual, even if you are silent.
With different people.
There will be a different life.
It does matter who you're with.
It can even change your growth trajectory.
Determine the success or failure of your life.
If there are not many friends, just be sincere.
Families don't have to be rich, just stick together.
Lovers don't need to be romantic, just love you.
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