I'm anxious.
What can I say? There is always a fear that if you are not careful, you will fall behind others.
This mentality is similar to fear. It is also uncomfortable. However, looking back on my own origins, I found that anxiety is also one of the reasons for my growth.
Because anxiety died in a small county town, so desperately toss to the north and Guangzhou.
Because of anxiety, everyone is improving, only I hang around, so I try to improve myself.
Because anxiety in the responsibility can not afford, expect to be frustrated, so desperately stand up, to shoulder all that an adult should bear.
I thought, if there is no external pressure, internal anxiety, I will easily succumb to inertia, muddle along, become a mediocre person, or good at self-comfort mediocre person.
Although I do not expect glory unparalleled, but mediocre life, or unwilling.
Because it's boring.
So I've been anxious, trying my best to spell.
Norway has an interesting tradition.
Fishermen in the deep sea, found a large number of sardines, catch up, ready to land to sell a good price.
However, returning from the deep sea would take a long time. Many sardines died before they reached shore.
Later, someone came up with a trick_
In the sardine trough, put their natural enemy: catfish.
When catfish enter the school, each sardine is stressed, swimming desperately, bursting with vitality, full of vitality, until landing are still alive and kicking.
Catfish eat, only some old and weak-and old and sick is not sold at a good price, eat it is not a pity.
This is the catfish effect.
In other words, in the face of pressure, the person's combat mode would be activated, skills would be upgraded rapidly, and enemies would be defeated one by one.
In other words, happiness degenerates, and sorrow strengthens.
Geneticists also tell us in terms of human reproduction: yes, yes. The more restless the population, the greater the chances of survival.
For example, in primitive times, the more vigilant they were to the environment and the more anxious they were to survive, they were also the best at arming themselves, defending against foreign enemies and avoiding attacks by wild beasts.
Many brave and skillful nations, in famine and chaos, show invincible, invincible, but after winning power, glory and wealth added to the body, beautiful jade beauty side, will gradually decline, soon towards decline.
Modern society is the same,"less work, more money, less pressure, close to home, free time" position, never really great achievements.
Only those who are anxious about the status quo and dissatisfied with themselves will think about change, innovate and usher in a new situation and civilization.
The road that is too comfortable is downhill.
Those who live most comfortably are those who do nothing.
It's hard to see flying dragons whistling out of the bottom of a comfortable well.
It is also difficult to see horses traveling thousands of miles a day in the zoo's breeding grounds.
It is even more difficult to see a rich lady suddenly making great achievements and blinding the eyes of the world.
When life goes smoothly, people lose their sense of crisis, settle for the status quo, muddle along, be mentally shortsighted, mentally suspended, and lose their skills to cope with any major changes.
Time does not stop for anyone.
It surges and engulfs everything, and everyone is in its gravity. It makes a silent noise: if you want to live, try.
Some people say, I want to work hard, but I find that the harder I work, the more anxious I am.
I admit it is.
But this is inevitable.
If you have a goal and a drive to reach it, anxiety is your shadow, and you can't get rid of it.
Because survival is "into the circle of mountains, a mountain pass a mountain block" things, attack this problem, will usher in the next challenge.
Challenge is inevitable, anxiety is inevitable.
In that case, why not make friends with him?
" How about this, anxious student? It seems that we're inseparable. Since that's the case, let's do something serious together. You urge me, I'll carry it out, and we'll live together vigorously!"
Anxiety is like this, from pressure to motivation, become your invincible magic tool.
I feel like slacking off sometimes. And lazy excuse, as long as you want to find, there is always.
But as soon as I stopped, my anxiety exploded and I couldn't rest. Alas, if this suffering continued, it would be better to take time out to do things.
This is why many friends say,"Actually, work is more reassuring than leisure."
Under this motivation, people will always be on the road, always walk, always see, always harvest, always grow.
Mencius said: into the family without law, out of the invincible foreign patients, the country will die.
If there is no internal supervision and spur, external threats and pressure, any existence will decline.
The country is like this, and so are you and me.
It is only in challenging internal and external environments that inertia, boredom, and aging habits are suppressed. And in that empty space, God will give you something better: intelligence, fighting spirit, young heart.
Finally, I want to tell you: the years are never quiet, the world is never stable, if you are in this kind of life, this can only mean_
1. Someone is carrying a load for you. However, the cost of protecting and caring for the giant baby was also heavy. You lose control of your destiny. If the heavy bearer defected, you would fall into the abyss and there would be nothing you could do.
In the end, all bridges have to cross by themselves. All the roads, you have to walk them yourself.
2, the so-called "carefree life", has long been fate in the dark marked a huge price, in the future one day, you will be surprised to find: this is an early consumption, and the rest of your life, will be at a heavy price, for it to pay principal interest.
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