Throughout the great achievements of ancient and modern times, there is a wonderful way to deal with the world.
The life experience of the sages is of great educational significance to us ordinary people.
To sum up, the wisdom of the ancients' life is condensed in these nine words.
Don't procrastinate.
If you are a man, you will have inertia. When everyone is tired and tired, he can't avoid wanting to stop for a while and have a rest. But what I fear most is a procrastination.
Today's work should be done today.
Tomorrow after tomorrow, how many tomorrow?
Those who do not cherish today, how can they grasp tomorrow?
Things will only procrastinate, procrastination will get old, procrastination and procrastination will be ruined.
Day after day, year after year, we waste our time in self-paralysis, small things turn into big things, good things into bad things, easy things into difficult things, and end up with nothing and nothing in the end.
Tao Yuanming, a great poet of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, once wrote such a poem to warn the world: if you do not come back in your prime, it will be difficult to do so in the morning. Be diligent in time, and time waits for no man.
To be a man, you must cherish your time and diligence; when you do things, you must act vigorously.
Nothing in the world is difficult to be diligent, but it is easy to procrastinate.
Stop making excuses for yourself, think about it and do it right away.
Once you take the first step, the rest may not be as difficult as you think.
Don't talk much.
In the Book of changes, there are few words about auspicious people, but there are many words that are irritable. People who are silent tend to act steadily and have good looks, while those who spend a lot of money tend to be grumpy and exaggerated and make enemies to attract trouble. So, to keep your mouth shut is the best way to protect yourself.
In Di Zi Gui, it is said that it is better to talk more than to speak less, but it means that words are not expensive, but words are more expensive than mastery.
When you speak, you should seek truth from facts, don't use rhetoric and lip service.
Zhu Ziqing wrote in Silence: your words should be like the stars of the night, not like New Year's Eve's firecrackers. Who wants the overnight firecrackers?
Mozi has a student named Ziji, who once asked the teacher: which is better, more words or less words?
Mozi replied: frogs and flies keep barking day and night, making their mouth dry, but no one is willing to listen to their voices, while the rooster who announces dawn only sings at dawn, but people all over the world hear it. In this way, it seems, what is the benefit of talking more? The important thing is to choose the right time to speak.
When you are in a mood, talk about it later; when you are not sure, talk about it after verification; when it is urgent, talk about it in detail; when it is not necessary, press not to say.
Don't talk nonsense what you shouldn't say, don't talk nonsense if you can't, don't talk nonsense if you can't.
The charm of language can be brought into full play only if there is something in the words and a sense of propriety.
People don't act.
To be a man, you must know how to behave.
The so-called understanding and propriety means to grasp the yardstick of being a human being.
Moderation is a ruler that can be used to measure not only yourself but also others.
There is a ruler in the heart and a degree of action: neither lukewarm nor fire, neither humble nor arrogant; the combination of strength and softness, the outer circle and the inner square; courteous and courteous, moderate and moderate.
Advance when you advance, retreat when you retreat, show when you show, and hide when you hide.
Do whatever you are in the position and eat whatever bowl you carry.
To leave leeway for others is to leave leeway for yourself.
Admiration is worthy of heaven and earth, praise and criticism has its own spring and autumn.
Read Qianfan indifferent and quiet, experienced the vicissitudes of life calmly.
This kind of proper measure is our lifelong pursuit.
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