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Happiness is easy to say, but not easy to get.
Not because there is too little happiness, but because the human heart is unpredictable. Desire is like a double-edged sword. when it makes people make progress, it pushes people into the abyss of insatiable desire. How to grasp the degree is a great knowledge.
Look at those words related to happiness: fools are blessed, simple is blessed, and plain is true.
It seems that being able to live a simple life is the greatest happiness in the world.
When I was a child, happiness was a simple thing; when I grew up, simplicity was a happy thing.
Everyone needs to have the ability to make themselves happy.
02
At the "strange work conference", Ma Dong asked Yu Minhong: are you worried that your children will not be good enough in the future, or that they will not be able to succeed like you?
Yu Minhong said: I have never thought about what my child must look like. I just hope that he can have the ability to be happy in small things.
This answer reminds me of a question on the Internet: what is the little thing that makes you happiest in life?
One of the most popular answers is: a bowl of hot noodles after coming home from overtime.
Netizens said that every time she came home after dinner, her grandmother would ask her, "have you eaten?" or cook something for you.
Then a night of warm noodles was handed over, covered with meat and green vegetables. She mumbled that she could not finish it if she cooked too much, but in the end she ate it all.
Wiping her mouth contentedly, Grandma packed the dishes and told her to take a bath and have a rest. The ordinary care fills the stomach with happiness, and the fatigue of the day dissipates with a hiccup.
The simplest midnight snack was precious to her. Because of grandma, she often feels that happiness is very simple.
Although happiness can not be found, but in the process of desperately getting close to the goal, we sometimes forget that it is actually around us.
03
Yi Shu once wrote about her ideal life: not to eat too well, to dress too well, to live too well, but to be free, not to feel any pressure, not to be a slave to work, not to be dominated by fame and fortune, to have like-minded partners and lively and lovely children, adequate food and clothing, it is ideal.
So simple, I think we are all very happy, just like accidentally looking up to see the horizon, there are clouds moving, people are surprised.
And such a moment, in fact, you also have.
The best life is to be loved, something to do, and something to look forward to. The simpler it is, the more precious it is.
May everyone not seek great wealth, but have the ability to be happy in small things.
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