Sometimes, you have to learn to get along with people you hate.

Your dislike of others often stems from the fact that you have the same shortcomings. In other words, you don't really accept yourself.

In addition to some very bad qualities, I think we are all faced with ordinary people, certainly not ferocious bandits, so when you are unhappy with things, use this sentence to ask yourself.

For me, obstinacy is an inherent characteristic of myself, but I hate it even more. So when it makes me uncomfortable, I have to think: I am like this myself, why should I be angry with others?

In fact, this has not been completely overcome, but every time I think so, I will pull out my unhappy heart, and then quickly adjust to the normal mode to communicate with others.

First, spare no effort to strengthen yourself

No matter being a person, mind, realm, or professional quality, do not limit your development and let your growth speed crush those who make you unhappy. When you crush or destroy him enough, will you still hate him?

I don't think so. It will only make you feel good or peaceful. Because no matter what he does at this time, it won't cause any harm to you, and you don't have to hate him or anything, wouldn't it be better to wait for him to kneel and lick you? Therefore, I think this is the most fundamental measure!

Second, think about whether you are jealous of something about him.

The feeling of disgust is never a simple psychological reflection, but a comprehensive reflection of social, physical advantages, gender and mental state.

If the other person has more physical advantages than you, tall, strong, fertile, smart, young, maybe your dislike comes from jealousy. Manage your jealousy, decentralize your development goals, and reduce unnecessary mental burden

Third, do not get along at all

Just to be clear, they are all adults. I just don't like you, and you don't like me. In the future, we won't know each other, or we'll have a fight, either you go or I'll go. Anyway, I'm in a fight with you. I don't have you or me, but this relationship is extreme, so it's best not to try.