Make a pot of tea and invite you to talk about it.
First, "tasting tea"
Early winter, the weather is getting cold, coupled with a period of continuous rain, do not want to go out, so make a pot of tea, sit down and taste it slowly.
When the boiling water rushed into the cup at the moment, the tea in the cup up and down, ups and downs. Watching the tea float and sink, from dark green to emerald green, from turquoise to yellow green, the tea leaves slowly float from the surface of the cup to the bottom of the cup with the passage of time. This tea is also from strong to light, from bitter to fragrant, from sweet to light, all revealing a kind of taste of life, reverie and aftertaste.
Now over 50 years old, I feel that life is like the tea in this cup. With the passage of time, the road of life has sunk from the floating cup noodles to the bottom of the cup. Life is also from thick to light, from sweet to light. In the long road of life, I have struggled, lost, laughed, cried, palpitated, and sad. Now old retirement, everything has been reduced to insipid, heart as simple, people as light as tea, this is now a good description of real life.
The beauty of elegance, to some extent, is close to what the ancients called Zen, and the wisdom shown in those Zen machines is actually pursuing the realm of this elegant beauty. A touch of sweetness, a soft wisp of heart sound, a warm true feeling, a beautiful dream, like a small stream, slowly moistening life. Fame, indifference, no struggle, no grab, has become the theme of retirement life. Everything is natural, everything is refined, everything is in the beautiful artistic conception, it is a tasteless and tasteless tea, and it is a tasteless and tasteless life for retirement. Reading and appreciation of American articles
The essayist Bai Luomei said that he would drink a cup of tea until it was tasteless, hear a song without rhyme, read a book without words, and love a person unintentionally. What a nice thing to say. In the light time, there is a green tea, reading books, listening to songs, reciting poems and painting, drinking a tea until it is tasteless, a song until it is tasteless, and a book until it is wordless, making the days as insipid as water, carefree and elegant in the fragrant fragrance. The years are in a hurry, fleeting, seasons change, flowers bloom and fall, years of mountains and rivers in the day and night reincarnation, can not find the color of the past, only a wisp of tea fragrance floated in front of me, only a song echoed in the ear, only a book is still reading in front of my eyes, so quietly crossing in Enron.
Second, "there are three qualities in the price of a person."
The most precious thing in life is character. People with good character are popular. Therefore, to be an old man, we should maintain a good character, be kind, treat people sincerely, and do things more reliably. It is valuable for a man to have three qualities.
Yigui: be calm and calm when you do things. Impulse is the devil, no matter what happens, the first thing is to be calm, impulse to do things easy to make big mistakes, everything should think twice, control emotions, in order to come up with some good ways to deal with loopholes.
People should not lose their temper without moving, no one wants to see your unhappy face, and there is no time to suffer your bad temper all the time. When you encounter something, first let yourself calm down, do not complain, be an organized person, this is a calm performance.
Ergui: the rice can be bent down, the rice is mature and bent, and the blighted son is as good as water, soft and rigid, and bending moderately is the performance of maturity. Don't think that bending down means admitting defeat and flinching. In fact, bending down is a kind of attitude and wisdom of life. Being extremely strong everywhere in life must not be able to create a new self. Only more tenacity, humility and great wisdom can perfect yourself.
Sangui: if you can raise your head to be a man, you must have self-confidence. People with self-confidence give people a positive and optimistic feeling, but they can't be too confident. If they are too confident, they will become conceited. To be a man, you should believe in yourself and have confidence in yourself. if you don't look down on yourself, then others will despise you. No matter how ordinary your birth is and how unrich you are now, your destiny is in your own hands. The key is to see how you do it. Only with a positive and optimistic attitude towards life can you be upright and chic throughout your life.
3. "No one is stupid, just don't say"
Be a man, don't cheat, don't deceive others, don't take others for fools. To be a man, you should learn to respect others. If you respect me a foot, I will respect you. You are true to me. People change people's hearts. If you are really ruthless, I will turn around. Don't regard my kindness as stupid, don't regard my kindness as benzene, but I don't bother to say it.
As a matter of fact, it is very simple to be a man. We can get together more and let him go. Well-bred people, treat people and things, do not see through, everything is self-evident.
In fact, life is not complicated, happiness is also very simple, be tolerant and magnanimous to people, be indifferent to gains and losses, be quieter, and do more good deeds, so that you can live more freely, and live a happy and happy life more. others will feel more comfortable.
Foolishness is not a fault, as long as it is not hypocritical. It does not matter what others think of me, as long as I have a clear conscience! Cherish the people who should be cherished, and be grateful to those who have helped me. Time can test the heart, money can bear witness to human nature, and communication can prove the truth.
In fact, people who like to treat others as fools are actually very ignorant. People are all alike. Boss and migrant workers, officials and people, just opportunity, just choice, no wisdom root. The kind person does not replace him stupid, the kind person does not mean he is stupid, many things just do not say, just keep a low profile. Therefore, people need mutual respect, understanding and help, and people should be simple, muddle-headed, sincere and kind-hearted. This is the person with noble moral character.
4. "Life needs to be seen through, but not through"
If you see things through, you will know how to do it. If you see through human feelings, you will know how to get along with each other. If you see through things, you will not want to do anything. If you see through human feelings, you will not want to be a human being. So, as long as you pay attention, the rest is just acceptance.
A lot of happiness is purely their own product, without the self, all happiness is a false illusion, whether happiness is completely a state of mind of their own, so they should learn to find happiness. The criticism, negation and attack of others should be carefully analyzed and faced correctly. those do not mean that your self is negated. The only person who can negate you is yourself. Life is your own, why care so much about what other people think? Only when you wear each other's shoes do you know where the pain is.
Don't fantasize that life is always so round, and don't fantasize about enjoying spring in the four seasons of life. Everyone's life is bound to encounter wind and rain, must taste bitter and helpless. As long as the faith in my heart does not shrink, as long as there is no severe winter in my heart, what can I do even if the wind is bitter and the rain is bitter? An optimistic person, in life, can laugh to see the gains and losses, not only recognize the final victory or defeat, they are full of confidence in the future, in the road of life can continue to climb step by step, live a happy and full daily life.
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