Everyone has a long life to go, and the words of parents are the streetlights on the way.
Parents' mouths can be warm sun in March, cold wind in December, gurgling water or stormy waves.
Every child is a blank piece of paper at the beginning of opening his eyes, and the words and deeds of his parents are pen and ink, adding different colors to the white paper.
The mouth of the parents determines the path of the child.
The daily words of parents determine the attitude of their children.
Parents are the first teachers of their children, and they are also the teachers who accompany their children the longest.
Whether or not to teach, the father's fault, from being born ignorant to gradually becoming a clear distinction between right and wrong, parents play an important role in the growth of their children.
It is not that the whole family does not enter the same door, we can always find that children are similar to their parents in daily life, in fact, this is a kind of imperceptible influence.
The ancients said that those who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are black. The environment is very important to a person's growth. In the environment, the importance of the family environment is self-evident.
A person spends more than half of his life at home, especially when he is young.
It is said that children are the shadow of parents. When children know nothing and explore the world for the first time, they imitate and learn from their parents.
If parents speak actively and elegantly in daily life, their children will also become elegant; if parents complain easily and swear, the child will not have good literacy.
In daily life, parents should be strict with themselves and set a good example for their children. Don't complain, don't swear, don't slander others behind your back.
How parents treat others determines the interpersonal relationship of their children.
Many children suffer from social phobia and are at a loss about how to get along with others and how to make friends with others. In fact, this has a lot to do with the fact that parents do not give a good demonstration to them in childhood.
To learn how parents interact with others and how to treat friends and relatives, children will constantly imitate and derive their own way of making friends and doing things in their daily observation.
If parents treat their friends twice, their children will not learn to treat others sincerely. Parents are not filial to their parents, and their children naturally have no sense of filial piety.
Multiple friends and multiple paths, interpersonal relationship is very important to a person's development, no one can do without friends, no one can survive alone, the future world belongs to people who know how to get along with each other.
If parents really plan for their children, they should let their children learn to get along with others and find out their own way of dealing with others by observing themselves getting along with others.
The mouth of the parents determines the future of the child.
Don't be too critical to your friends and relatives, and know how to compare your heart to heart. Don't be mercenary towards your friends, knowing that affection is priceless.
Parents' words to their children affect their children's psychology.
Words are invisible knives. Though you can't see the wound, once you are stabbed, it will never heal.
According to a survey by psychological experts, many people with psychological disorders are caused by verbal stimulation when they are young, and this kind of verbal stimulation is powerful precisely because it comes from the closest population.
Many parents always think that there is no overnight feud between parents and children, no matter how bad the words are, he will not blame me and will understand my pains. But in fact, when a child is hit by language, no matter how you explain it later, you can't eliminate the wound.
Parents yell because of their children's mistakes, which will make them feel scared and nervous, and will also make them deny themselves and become unconfident.
Parents' use of cold violence or verbal cynicism to their children will cause them to develop a strong rebellious mentality and then take drastic actions to attract attention.
In fact, it is not that the child is crooked, nor is it that the child is not sensible, but your inadvertent words that push the child onto the wrong path.
When talking to your child, put your child on an equal footing with you. Don't criticize or indulge easily. Talk to your child well and communicate with him as if he were an adult.
Parents' mouth is not only a flower, but also a sword, which can not only cover the child's road with fragrant flowers, but also make the child's road full of thorns.
The mouth of the parents determines the future of the child.
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