Patience shows a person's breadth of mind and magnanimity. But again and again, patience is cowardice.
Excessive tolerance is to put your posture too low, giving others a chance to be presumptuous in front of you. Your blindly tolerance is to give up the opportunity to earn status or interests for yourself, and you will not defend yourself, so everyone can ignore your existence, and naturally you will not get a chance to be treated fairly. Therefore, in the face of injustice, we must have an attitude.
Blindly patient, you lose your attitude. Your attitude determines how others treat you. Even children will act on people's faces. Whenever you are kind and friendly, children will put their noses on their faces. When you droop your face and are unhappy, children will be honest and dare not offend you, which is a child's instinct. Adults still can't get rid of this instinct, unless they are conscious and virtuous to regulate themselves, but nowadays people have no virtues. Your repeated tolerance is just to tell others that you are easy to mess with, you are weak, anyone can mess with you, and they will not pay any price to provoke you. It is in time and again that you lose your attitude.
Even if there is only one face in the face of unfairness, it is an attitude. Is to let the other person pay attention to their own words and deeds hurt you, let the other person stop inappropriate behavior. Even relatives must have an attitude. Do not think that relatives can endure indefinitely, your tolerance will not win the respect of relatives, on the contrary, it will only make your relatives more and more ignore your existence, because you have no attitude, treat you whatever you want, anyway, you will accept it, and will not make your own voice, ignore you, it is reasonable, children will have candy to eat, this is the truth. Only when you have an attitude can you express your dissatisfaction, defend yourself, and get the respect of others.
Attitude is sometimes can not be annoyed can always hide; sometimes what you do to me, I do to you. If you have an attitude, the other party will restrain somewhat; if you are patient and have no attitude, they will regard you as weak and deceivable.
In the face of unfairness and inequality, we must not bear it, and we must have our own attitude. Your attitude, the other party will be what attitude towards you, usually said to look at people to eat is like this, you are weak, the other side will infringe; you are tough, the other side will let you three points. If you don't give the other person a chance to infringe on you, he will never infringe on you. Therefore, in this era of moral decline and self-danger, being a person who is not easy to mess with at least will not be bullied or slaughtered by others, while being a good person and a good person will be calculated and ripped off everywhere.
Excessive tolerance, what you lose is that you should have an attitude, and what you lose is the opportunity to defend yourself.
Your attitude towards life determines the attitude of others towards you and will defend your own people in order to win fair treatment.
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