Gradually, we grow up, unconsciously, we learn to live, learn to interact with people. Over time, we have like-minded good friends and good partners who care for each other. Sometimes, we don't pick it deliberately like picking a flower. Slowly, we are eroded by something called "hurt". Gradually, we are on our guard. We are always strong, always smiling, although we have the trauma of injury, but we still live a dull life, but we never thought that this kind of injury is not from the outside, it is precisely caused by ourselves.
When we do something wrong, the other party does not deliberately criticize us, but we are very ashamed; when we see our good friends talking and laughing with others and snubbing ourselves, we feel bad; when we are full of ridicule and scolding by others, when their immoral behavior and uncivilized words haunt us, we may sigh, maybe angry, and more often laugh off.
When I fall out with my friends, I will be very sad, but I will never let my friends see, because I do not want my friends to accompany me sad, accompany me to tears, accompany me to sigh, when I hear repeated countless times a day, others that cold words relative, I always silent, patiently listen to his words, sometimes sigh, more often I will think: maybe! Maybe he's right. When I break up with my friends, I feel heartache. I just leave my friends. It's no big deal. I always want to keep myself from thinking and being sad, but more often I'm hurting myself, remembering and caring. I've never thought much about my friends.
I always say to my friends, "anything wrong can be pointed out, and I will correct it." But more often, my friends don't tell me this, and when I finally get fed up with hurting each other, I just tell the truth. At that moment, I want to collapse, and it's not only myself that hurts me, but the vague words on the white paper. I let the tears hide in my eyes, and my heart felt a pain accompanied by a beating. When it comes to injury, you still hurt yourself, and more often you inadvertently hurt others.
I always want to escape, want to be alone, but that is impossible, over time, I will become quiet, lonely, and do not want to talk more. At that moment, the hurt is the most serious. After all, the road of life is very long. We should look forward, learn to reduce harm for ourselves, learn to let ourselves cherish the feeling of happiness we have, cherish everything we can have now, and learn to give up. So that we are not trapped by some insignificant things, otherwise we will not only make ourselves scarred, but also hinder our progress.
Not to hurt ourselves is undoubtedly a kind of detachment in a positive sense, so that we can have peace of mind, so that we can take our own path, do the great things we should do, and then move towards success. get more and more valuable things. It can be said that when walking on the journey of life, you should always tell yourself: don't hurt yourself.
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