There is a friend around, recently encountered something, very frustrated, temporarily unable to guide, she came to ask for my help.
The first thing she said to me was: I know & lsquo; should insist & rsquo;, & lsquo; should be strong & rsquo;, also knows that lsquo; is a difficult way to go uphill, just carry it over & rsquo;, also knows that lsquo; life is not easy for everyone & rsquo;.
I know all the truth, but when I am really in the fog, I find that these words don't work for me at all. I still feel sad, anxious, pessimistic and unable to live on.
She said: I feel so bad, please help me and tell me how to get through this trough quickly.
I replied: there is no way to pass the trough quickly, we can only endure it.
After listening to a lot of truth, we still have a bad life, not that the reason is wrong, but that in the process of putting the methodology into practice, we lack some determination and courage.
Sometimes it's more effective to be able to hold on than to know it.
The more you go back, the more deeply you can feel that there are some roads in life that you can only take on your own, and others can't help you.
Even if you are lucky to get a moment of relief from somewhere else, in the end, you have to be the one who faces the wind, grits your teeth and move forward step by step.
There are some roads, you always have to go alone.
There is always a moment when you are trapped by love.
There is a sister lovelorn, every day extremely decadent, no intention to work, no intention to socialize, not even interested in buying, pull me over and over again to ask: why I am so kind to him, he still does not like me?
I comfort her, people who don't love you, just let go and throw it away. Why bother yourself too much? it's not worth getting drunk for him.
My sister blamed me for being too easy to speak. While she accused me of not hurting when I stood, she told me with tearful eyes how difficult it was to put down a person and how painful it was to give up a person.
I also replied ruthlessly: you are not the only one to love, who is not so difficult.
Read a sentence on the Internet: the so-called lovelorn, does not mean that he dumped you, it is that you lost him, he dumped you, but you can not help but love him.
Just look at this sentence, you can feel the bitter taste of love without getting it.
And the sadness of being lovelorn is mainly torturing your heart. on the one hand, you want to contact him and think about all the good things you have been with each other, on the other hand, you have to persuade yourself to give up on him and refrain from going to him. This feeling is too difficult for myself.
But so what? it's time to cry, to be decadent, but after crying, after dawn, you still have to clean yourself up beautifully, go to work, study, meet customers, and smile, because no one will pay for your frustration.
What if I feel bad in my heart? Put up with it.
You can feel sorry for love, but your rent, water and electricity, food and drink expenses will not allow you to collapse.
Just hold on, as a woman, you must always be strong, but not blindly weak, can not lose a love, just screw up a life, we must have the ability to carry all the sadness.
In the words of Yi Shu, it is:
Dream back in the middle of the night, you can taste it as much as you like, but before and after you, I want you to pretend that nothing has ever happened. You can, we all can, people live like this.
No matter how painful it is to be lovelorn, you can only get through it by yourself.
There are many bad times when there is a lot of work.
A few days ago, my cousin, who had just been out of society, came to complain to me about my work, swearing about how hard the work was, how difficult it was to earn money, and how fickle the leader's temper was. Finally, he said to me, "Sister, I am really in a bad mood."
Across the phone screen, I could clearly feel his mourning. For a moment, I didn't know how to comfort him, so I sent this message to his Wechat:
The adult world is very difficult, we are always under a lot of pressure, but do you think this difficulty is a ferocious obstacle? no, in fact, these difficulties are very small, but also need you to carry.
Perhaps you have revised the plan countless times, Party A's customers are dissatisfied and irritable; when the leader is in a bad mood, you just hit the muzzle of the gun, a person hiding in the toilet to wipe tears, very aggrieved.
Or is assigned a job, how can not find a clue, while anxious, afraid that they will not be able to complete the task on time, and on the other hand very sad, feel very bad.
The difficulty of life is that it is full of things that are so small, but will drive you crazy, and any of these things will not cause much blow to your life, will not make you lose your arms and legs, or suffer a trauma. At most, it will make you feel a little aggrieved, feel frustrated in your self-esteem, and get a blow in your heart.
But if you want to play the job card, you have to put up with it, keep trying, keep running-in, and find your comfortable position at work.
The early stage will be very difficult, will want to escape from the workplace every minute, but if you want to improve, you can only stand here and carry on.
It's like the line in Silver Soul that says:
When you grow up, you will understand that there are tears in life that wash away the great sorrow that is not clean, and the unforgettable pain that makes you cannot cry even if you want to, so the really strong people laugh louder and louder the more they want to cry, with pain and sadness, even so, you have to take them forward with a smile.
There is no easy word in life, and no one can do everything well without working hard.
Life sometimes requires you to add some sugar.
A few days ago, I saw "I am willing to love the world for you." after graduating from Muzi University, she went to the top four accounting firms in the country, and then she was exhausted, and the hospital issued a death notice.
Later, she resigned and went home to prepare for the postgraduate entrance exam. She fell ill the day before the exam and missed it.
Later, I got married and came out to look for a job. I finally passed the written test of the unit I wanted. When I was ready for the interview, I found that I was pregnant. Basically, no company would just recruit a person, and then let her take maternity leave.
In the plot, Muzi chatted with his friends and complained that you said why my life was so rough.
At that time, I just opened the barrage, and I just glanced at it. I saw that after Muzi had said this, there was a sentence on the barrage because you were the protagonist.
When I saw this sentence, I really felt so cured. Life is hard sometimes, but we can add some sugar to it and do some positive psychological construction for ourselves, in case we are really the protagonists.
We have to find ourselves a reason to enjoy it and stick to it.
The novelist once said: in everyone's life, there are several mouthfuls of cold rice that can not be eaten overnight, which must be swallowed rather than left in front of the eyes in a daze.
Since there are some things that can not be avoided, then we should cultivate a strong heart and face it bravely, only as if these are the gentle irrigation in life.
When we get through all this, we may find that the scourge in our eyes is no more than that, and we are far stronger than you think we are.
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