▣ 01
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Friends are like fish in the water, fish in deep water and shallow water will never be together; poor and rich, officials and people, grass-roots and dignitaries can not become true friends, because they have different feelings about life. the most important thing is that they treat the world and nature differently.
Even rich and rich, officials and officials, dignitaries and dignitaries will not become true friends.
Because there are interests, there are differences, there are trade-offs, there are priorities, there are concerns, can be divided into three, six or nine, earthly interests dispute heart blinded the truth, therefore, there will be no real feelings.
▣ 02
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Youth is enviable, but maturity is more lasting.
Look at women no longer just like youth and beauty, pay more attention to maturity, serenity, nature and clarity; pay more attention to women's mind, magnanimity, wisdom and kindness; pay more attention to the connotation behind steady maturity and occasional delicacy.
▣ 03
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Sincerely thank the person who is waiting for you all your life, because he is the haven of your life; smile to face the person you once hated, because he makes you stronger; sincerely thank the person you once loved, because he let you know how to love.
Thank the person who betrays you, if it is not him, you will not understand the world; for the person you once secretly liked, you should sincerely wish him happiness, because you also want him to be happy when you like him; for the trustworthy person, get along well with him, and meet few sincere friends or true bosom friends in your life.
▣ 04
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Feelings are not high or low, let alone need to control and master, feelings are natural flow, deliberate control and pursuit will not have true feelings.
The sincere feelings of the world need the tacit understanding of the heart, and even the communication of the soul that let nature take its course.
▣ 05
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Things in the world are both complex and simple. If you are simple, the world will be simple.
To live a chic and magnificent life is to bear the pain. Everything has two sides or many sides, and sometimes it is hard to tell right and wrong.
▣ 06
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
The happiness index depends entirely on the state of mind.
▣ 07
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
To put emotions in a free space and to be lenient to others is to be lenient to yourself; to be lenient to feelings is to be lenient to the heart.
▣ 08
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Think quietly in your spare time, after decades of life, how many really reliable buddies and bosom friends there are.
Don't look at and distinguish friends according to your so-called status or official position. These so-called friends may be the most unreliable 'friends'!
As the saying goes: it is enough to have a bosom friend in life. Maybe after thinking about it, I don't even have a bosom friend, and how desolate my heart is.
Be tolerant, be generous, be kind, and exchange true feelings for true feelings. This is the foundation of being a human being.
▣ 09
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
Wife or husband, has long seemed mundane, or even unbearable.
But the years have long been integrated with each other.
No matter how difficult it is, no matter how intolerable it is, it is also a part of life.
When we are together, we may not cherish it. If we part, we will find it hard to leave.
▣ 10
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
At the beginning, the meticulous care and indulgence of the children not only made us a burden, but also made the children unable to stand up the backbone of life.
When I was young, I was afraid that they would suffer, that they would suffer, that they would be weathered, and that they would be afraid of them. There's too much fear.
When they grow up, we still have to bear the deep sorrow and pain for our original fear. Whose fault is it?
There is nothing wrong with seeing a rainbow without going through the wind and rain.
▣ 11
Men don't understand until they are middle-aged:
None of us can win the race against time. "Life is too short" is not an empty sentence. For people in their forties, they have a lot of feelings.
Face everything calmly, live out of yourself, live with self-confidence, think what you should think, do what you should do, love yourself, and love others.
No matter when and where, especially cherish fate, whether it is a passer-by of your life, or a long-term bosom friend, are wonderful memories of your life.
Don't wait until there is nothing you can do to turn up the memories of regret and regret for the rest of your life.
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