one
You're all right now, just in time to help me sort out this file.
You are a student of design, aren't you? please take a picture for me.
Our home is so close, you can take me to work.
In fact, I want to refuse, but I am afraid that the other party will be angry. I am afraid that I will have a bad relationship in the future, so I am always embarrassed to speak.
For a long time, we have been taught: give people roses, the hand has an aftertaste. It is a blessing to suffer losses from education and to help each other. It is this kind of education that causes us to learn very often that we will not refuse.
But the real situation in life is that people ask you for help, but this favor is like a hot potato, it is difficult for you to do well, and even affect your work and life because of help. But even if there are thousands of people in my heart, I am afraid of offending others because I am embarrassed to refuse, so I have to agree reluctantly.
Over time, the person who asks you to help will only find you talkative, and it will be taken for granted to ask you to help. If one day you refuse, you will become a bad person, be talked about behind your back, indifferent and arrogant, and so on.
two
Jingjing just graduated this year, when I entered the unit with the advice of my parents: talk less and do more, and you must be polite in order to have good popularity.
One day when there was a heavy rain, my quiet father happened to be running errands around, so he drove to the office to pick her up and brought along two colleagues who couldn't get a taxi.
It was well-intentioned. As a result, after arriving at work the next day, two colleagues told others everywhere that Jingjing family was a special baby, Jingjing, the eldest lady of the family, who had the princess's illness. He even joked quietly to his face: why don't you let your father take you to and from work today?
Quietly wanted to say a few words and then passed, but someone still talked about it two months later. Just once, gossiping colleagues were there, quietly half joking and half serious: you can talk about me behind my back, but do not let me know, after all, I am not a fuel-efficient lamp, tear up is also a matter of minutes, I do not like to talk does not mean easy to bully, who does not have a few thorns.
Since then, no one knows if there is anyone behind it, but everyone will respect Jingjing in front of him and stop gossiping.
On the outside, do not think that someone will pity you if you are dumb. They will only say that you are arrogant and unsociable. It is not unreasonable for three people to become tigers. Only by being tough can you avoid being bullied.
three
In the Strategy of extending the Jubilee, the best example is the comparison between Queen Fucha and Wei Liulu.
Queen Fucha has been thinking for the sake of the emperor all her life, and it is a bad thing to be too kind as the master of the sixth house. Do not fight, do not complain, do not envy, but her kindness has been repeatedly used by others, three children have died one after another, even the maids around her.
The bad guys will not let you go because you are kind, but will only take advantage of you because you are kind, and even fate will not be soft on her.
Unlike Queen Fucha, Wei Liulu dared to be a bad guy and would not be easily overthrown.
Since entering the palace, Wei Liulu has decided that his goal is revenge, and no one can stop it. She will not spare Erqing who has done bad things because of the so-called affection, nor will she torture herself because she can not let go of the past.
She knows how to add a protective shell to her kindness.
You know, having quality doesn't mean you don't have a temper. You should have courage while you have ability.
The tolerance of the bad guys today is the cruelty to the good people tomorrow. This forgiveness is not forgiveness but aiding evil.
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