Life inevitably has some unsatisfactory things, but in an unsuccessful situation, it is also a kind of life wisdom to be able to do not lose control. And those who are easily out of control and angry often make irrational actions.
If you were a boss, would you use such a person? I don't think any boss in his right mind would. A person who is easily out of control often gives the impression that this person is unreliable and immature. No one will value a person who is out of control.
The following career story is meaningful.
Li Qiang has worked as an account manager in a media advertising company for four years. With his "upright" personality and interpersonal reasons within the company, he has never had a chance to be promoted because of his excellent business ability. In spite of his anger, he was determined to answer the headhunter's "call."
Coincides with a large media company in the search for customer director candidates, through headhunting and the other party HR repeatedly "open", the other party seems to be interested in his customer resources and industry background, it seems that only one interview can be set "heaven and earth".
On the day of the interview, Li Qiang's alarm clock didn't ring. When he arrived at the bus waiting point of the other company, the bus had already left. It was so bad that Li Qiang had to take a taxi across the city in order to be on time for his appointment. When he arrived in confusion, only a few minutes remained before the appointed time. He stepped into the elevator in a hurry. At this moment, the weight bell actually rang, and there was silence inside the door. The door closed again, then opened again…
Li Qiang looked at his watch and sighed. Just as he was about to step out, a woman in formal attire hurried into the elevator and accidentally stepped on his shoes. Before she could apologize, Li Qiang shouted uncontrollably. He was already anxious, but now he vented all his anger on this lady!
After he lost his temper, Li Qiang sat down in the conference room with some anger and regret. A few minutes later, the door opened. What he didn't dare to imagine was that the woman standing at the door was the one who had just stepped on his foot.
The results of the interview are self-evident. Li Qiang wasn't hired, and no company would value someone whose emotions were easily out of control.
From the examples above, it is not difficult to see that anger is the most destructive of emotional reactions. Anger blocks one's vision and makes others think badly of it.
Think about it, a mature, intelligent and calm person, or an angry, angry person, who is more likely to be trusted by others? Undoubtedly, the former would be trusted more by people. No one would value a person who lost control of his emotions, because in the eyes of others, a person who lost control of his emotions gave people the feeling that he was a "madman", indicating that this person was unreliable.
No one values a person who is out of control. Emotional out of control is a kind of immature performance, people make all the mistakes in life, 80% because they can not control their emotions. A person's emotions out of control, just like a high-speed car brake failure, this is how dangerous a thing ah!
No one values a person who is out of control. When a man is angry, he becomes ugly and vulnerable. Brave men win when they meet, wise men win when they meet. And a man's intelligence must be in a calm state to play better. "God wants a man to be mad, he must first take away his reason" is the truth.
No one values a person who is out of control. Out of control in the eyes of others is that you can not. A person who has a plan to do things is always calm, only people who do things without a plan and no shrewdness will always be on the same page. How can such a person be valued by others?
No one values a person who is out of control. A wise man is one who can control his emotions. Can say a beautiful word at the right time; also can stop a word that should not be said in time when necessary.
In life, we must learn to control our emotions, because when temper comes, blessing is gone. When we encounter difficult problems, we must first calm down and avoid impulsive actions. We must never be quick to talk or brave for a while, and let ourselves make stupid things that we regret later.
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