You flunked the mid-term exam. You failed the exam many times, but the poor results this time startled yourself as well as me.
Your phone is full of disappointment, so that I can not bear to blame you, your sadness is inevitable, you are not very diligent but not lazy child, this test is a boring stick to you.
Just when I was thinking about how to enlighten you so as not to hurt your self-confidence, you recovered yourself. The speed scared me again. But for two days, when you came back from school on weekends, you calmly seemed as if nothing had happened.
So I can't help it: where have you been reading?
You said: read the Pacific Ocean.
I said: why so bad.
You said: it's too bad to fly.
I said: you are really strong inside.
You said: strong enough to be an asshole.
And make fun of yourself.
I'm speechless. For your performance, I am happy and sad.
Happy that your self-healing ability is so strong that it is a little heartless, which is a good thing. In this society full of pressure and competition, the strong mind is a scarce species, anti-frustration is a valuable ability, mother is not satirizing you.
I see a lot of children, because of the pressure of study, because of impatience with setbacks, a sentence of criticism from a teacher, a rebuke from parents, a bad exam, enough to make them cry, play truant, leave home, or even commit suicide. There have been several cases of such things in our small city. Do you still remember the child in the second year of high school in XX district? Because the parents asked questions, they jumped from the 22 floor. It's scary.
And then there are adults, who are no more resilient than children.
They have a nervous breakdown because of personnel disputes, worry and sorrow because of the pressure of work, and sleepless nights because their official careers are not going well. People suffering from depression, such as spring grass, spread across a variety of industries and cultural levels. When I saw on the Internet that Zhang Chaoyang, a social elite with both fame and fortune, was also in a mental crisis and sought medical treatment everywhere, I became more aware of the importance of inner strength.
A strong heart is a sign of mental health.
Rather than the so-called success, my mother wants you to become a person of physical and mental health, which is a necessary condition for happiness in life. All the efforts in life are towards happiness.
Your performance shows that you can correctly deal with setbacks, but also have a certain ability to resist setbacks, which makes me glad.
But what worries me is that your heart is not really strong, let alone rise to the level of assholes.
The saying that the heart is so strong as an asshole is not created by you, but by the writer Wang Shuo. You do have some talent for language. Read it and remember it. In his letter to his daughter Wang Mimi, Wang Shuo said: what do I want you to do? I don't want to give you anything. I want you to be happy all your life. You have to be rich in heart to get rid of these superficial similarities, making soup is more important than writing poetry, your craftsmanship is more important than men, and inner strength is more important than being an asshole.
Wang Shuo himself is a heartbreaking bastard, and it is not enough to make such a remark until he reaches this level. But you just pinched the last sentence and ignored the previous sentence: you must be rich in heart.
This is a prerequisite for inner strength.
The heart is strong and conditional.
Strength is a kind of strength, is a kind of belief. There is no power in the world for no reason, and there is no strength without support.
As long as you are strong, you must have support, source and support. Or knowledge, or status, or money, or career, or appearance, or interest, or inner wealth.
Fan Bingbing said: I am a tycoon. With great confidence, she relies on income, status and beauty.
Those who are strong in heart must be confident, which is a high level of self-confidence. They are sure in their hearts that they are not disturbed, nor are they surprised or disgraced. Be able to control the direction of life, find the right orientation of life, not be shaken by ordinary gains and losses, not discouraged by ordinary setbacks, not lost by ordinary fame and wealth.
Dao Erden, a writer, is a top student of Peking University. He can get a name or a profit, as long as he wants to. But he is willing to work for a tabloid, with a monthly salary of 1,000 yuan, he reads, writes, makes friends, is at ease, does not rise and fall with the world, and lives at ease.
People who are strong in heart are usually sensible, happy and leisurely.
Dao Erden has a rich inner world, and I think Wang Mimi can also understand the true meaning of his father's words. She has her own struggle and support. She graduated from Berkeley School in California and now works in Art Finance.
It is hard to imagine that a person who has nothing and has no skills can be strong in heart.
A strong heart without spiritual support is nothing but a paper tiger, which can survive for a while, not for a lifetime, not to mention rough seas, not even the wind and grass. See, just yesterday, you called me again, still depressed, you failed the exam again, but it was just a quiz.
Dear daughter, a strong heart needs to be honed constantly. My mother hopes that you will learn more knowledge and master one more skill, not for fame and fortune, but to make your life boat run more smoothly. I recently read a sentence, I think it makes sense to share with you: life can start from scratch, but not unarmed.
After reading: every sentence is from the bottom of my heart. With this mother, the child will grow into a winner in life. To educate children, words are the weakest, because no matter how much they say, they all carry emotions, and children can listen to very little; letters are good, and children can read them over and over again, and integrate themselves into their own thinking. If they also write their heart words to communicate with their parents, they will open their hearts to each other and build a good bridge of communication. The best thing is behavior. Parents blame their children and ask their children to succeed. Parents themselves cannot be loser in the first place, otherwise they have no right to teach their children what to do. The best motivation is to be objective and positive.
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