one. Son, not everyone likes you.
From the day you were born, you began to come into contact with all kinds of people, and everyone's preferences, self-cultivation and personality are different. Some people will not like you because of your size and appearance, some people will not like you because of your grades, and some people will not like you because your hobbies are different from him. In short, you must recognize this reality. But that's not a bad thing, and you don't have to deny yourself. As long as you insist on doing the right thing and being a kind and upright person, some people will change their attitude towards you sooner or later, while those who don't like you, as always, stay away, because they may not be good people.
two. Kid, say thank you more.
No one around you, including their parents, is obliged to help you, take care of you, or tolerate you. Your parents have given you life, which is already the greatest favor to you.
Therefore, when others help you once, you must seriously say thank you, otherwise there will be no second time; when others do not want to help you, do not hold a grudge, because they have no obligation to help you, besides, have you ever done anything for others?
three. Kid, learning is really not for me.
Why do I keep pushing you to read and study? Only when you read too much can you distinguish right from wrong, so that you will not be blinded by people with bad intentions, and will not be affected by shallow people. Why do the old men and old ladies in the community spend a lot of money on something called "magic rust remover"? Because they don't know that there is something called hydrochloric acid.
Only when you get good grades, can you be qualified to choose a job you like, and have free time to do what you like, instead of wronging yourself and busy your life in order to survive.
four. Son, life is very precious.
Because you are still young, you still can't experience the things of life and death. And to the parents of this "four-year-old" age, friends around already have "go first". You know, watching your peers die is a very sad and frightening thing. Of course, what is more saddening than this is that white-haired people send black-haired people. Therefore, in your most helpless, most painful, most lonely days, you should choose to live strongly, do not talk about self-harm, suicide, your life is given by your parents, you have no right to give up.
five. Kid, go home often.
To tell you the truth, every parent is very contradictory. They not only want their children to spread their wings and fly high, but also want their children to accompany them. The older you are, the more so you are. So, no matter how busy you are in the future, please take the time to go home and have a look. It is also a great joy for the old couple to cook a meal for you and make your bed ahead of time.
six. Son, love is greater than you think, but it is also more ordinary.
Love is built on the basis of mutual pay, understanding and support, and love will always be implemented in daily life. When you are in your teens, you can't afford any responsibility, and you can't give anyone happiness, so don't do anything to "taste the forbidden fruit". It's not good for anyone.
seven. Son, face up to the unfairness in life.
As long as it is a society, it is full of competition and injustice. We do not have to worry too much about these things. It is reliable to strive to improve ourselves. You don't have to be ashamed that our car is worse than the neighbor's, because our parents bought it on their own, and it's not a shame at all; if our car is better than the neighbor's, you don't have the capital to be proud of it, because it has little to do with you, and you haven't paid anything for it.
If you are at a disadvantage, complaining about social injustice all day will wear out your will, sink you, and suffer more injustice; if you are out of advantage, showing off all day will blind your eyes, for fear that one day, you will degenerate into the kind of person you used to despise.
eight. Kid, keep yourself clean at all times.
On any occasion, don't indulge yourself, either mentally or physically! To have their own firm principles of the bottom line, some bad habits, never touch, such as alcoholism, smoking, drugs, sexual disorder! For girls, this is particularly important, because girls themselves out of a relatively weak position, an indulgence, often in exchange for a lifetime of misfortune!
nine. Son, money is important, but some things are more important.
Money is very important, a poor person can hardly enjoy dignity, family, education, health. However, "A gentleman loves money and takes it with the way". You should not try even once for those methods that gain wealth through secret touch and deception.
ten. Kid, you're on your own.
"rely on the mountains will fall, rely on everyone can run", only you are the most reliable.
Few colleagues will really help you; parents will be old and will not be with you for a lifetime; brothers and sisters will have their own families and a big business of their own; even your children will leave you sooner or later to start a family and start a career. Therefore, you must have your own hobby, have a healthy body, and walk happily to the end!
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