It doesn't matter what other people think of you, or how you probe your life.
The important thing is that you have to spend the time between your fingers falling like rain in a real way, knowing how you're going to live. Life, learn to settle.
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Sedimentation friends
Time polishes the edges and corners of people, but also precipitates true friends. A good friend is better than a thousand possessions.
There is no path to sincerity, for sincerity is the path.
Friends are like RMB, there are true and false.
False friends will often come to you when you are fine; true friends will never stay away from you when you are in trouble.
A true friend does not lie in rhetoric, but in the hand that pulls you at the critical moment.
Those friends who surround you all day and make you happy are not necessarily true friends.
2
Calm down.
Red walk purple, walk horse walk lamp, it is better to walk a real life; seek power for position, seek gold for silver, it is better to seek a good mood.
Light as smoke, set as a rock, in order to stay away from the inner noise; life has advance and retreat, lose what can not lose mood.
People in this life, how are too, rather than frown, it is better to steal fun.
More suffering and less joy is the inevitability of life, happiness is the calm of life, and turning suffering into joy is the detachment of the wise.
Leaning on the building to listen to the wind and rain, light to see the Jianghu road.
3
Sow kindness
Kindness is not intentional, it is a pleasant and natural thing, and sometimes kindness is for peace of mind.
The ancients said: love out love back, blessing to those who come. Sowing kindness and benefiting the world is to accumulate virtue and blessing for oneself.
With the eyes of the world, it is inevitable that one leaf will blind the eyes; with the heart of the world, everything will be collected in the eyes; with a kind heart to touch the world, everything will become vibrant and dazzling.
Life is mixed, life is troubled, a kind heart, will be able to put all kinds of conditions properly, life into their own inner joy appearance. American Reading Appreciation
4
Develop a hobby
At the end of Ming Dynasty, Zhang Dai said: People have no addiction, can not make friends with them, because they have no deep feelings.
Only by having interests and hobbies can one show one's true temperament. People with hobbies are happier.
When a person immersed in their own hobbies, devoted, temporarily get rid of the trivial life, emitting light, this light will also infect the people around.
The ancients said that from art to Tao, beneficial hobbies can nourish life and make a person spiritually rich.
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Gains and losses follow fate
Buddhists say: gain and loss with fate, heart without increase or decrease.
Life is impermanent, gain and loss is a matter outside the body, for their own soul, in fact, there is no loss, only because we care too much, only to create pain and worry.
Pick up, put down, all gains and losses are very normal; stand high, look far, right and wrong conflict do not worry; think open, see through, life confusion naturally open.
Life is to forget age, fame and fortune, and sorrow. Put it down, not nothing; put it down, there is.
6
learn to bear
Some people always cry for peace, but the real world is after all a river.
You must keep running to stay where you are; you must learn to bear grievances to withstand the storms of life.
A mature person, not only suffered, but also suffered grievances, who is not crying while moving forward?
Don't easily expose your inner vulnerability, learn to bear everything you should bear;
Don't easily describe the confusion of life, learn to face the chaotic reality;
Don't give in to the world easily, it makes you cry, you have to insist on making yourself smile.
As long as we can bear, do not escape, will cherish, strong heart, life will not be too pale.
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always be grateful
The ancients said: "The grace of water, when the spring is reported."
10,000 people will not be able to repay him, and he will not be able to repay him. Those who are grateful are soft in heart, and the world is bright.
Gratitude is not only giving, but also self-emotional pleasure. Grateful for the past every season of spring, summer, autumn and winter, grateful for every ups and downs in the past, everything is the best arrangement.
Thanksgiving loved ones, gratitude for all beings, gratitude for this moment, Nietzsche said, gratitude is the health of the soul.
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diligent in reading
The ancients said: one day do not read, dust born among them, two days do not read, speech boring; Three days do not read, ugly.
Yang Jiang said: Reading is not to get a diploma or make a fortune, but to become a person who has temperature, understands interest and can think.
Every idea gleaned from the book is timeless, solid and practical.
Those who truly read never lack free souls, and their hearts need not be fortified, but they will never be captured.
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