Love is a warm harbor in the heart. Tired, let the heart dock, in the arms of the lover, let the fatigue relieve. Love is the paradise of dreams, bored, there are lovers patiently listen to your nagging, let troubles to wander, let smiles show. A gentle look, an intimate word, and an affectionate hug can make the mood blossom. To build a home for love, we don't want grandeur, but peace of mind. To build a home for love, you don't want iron walls, you want to be relaxed and natural.
Among thousands of people, meeting together is fate, holding hands is love, all the way through ups and downs, it is really not easy to stay together for a lifetime. Everyone is an independent individual, with different personalities, different hobbies, different tastes, and different social relationships. Walking together, what we need is mutual running-in, mutual understanding, mutual care and tolerance. If you really love someone, you will slowly change yourself under an imperceptible influence. For love to get rid of their own ailments, accept the bad habits of TA; for love to change their temper, tolerate the small character of TA. People who do not want to change for you, just love is not true enough, you are not in the heart of TA, heart-to-heart pay, can not stir up the waves in the heart of TA; wishful thinking to give, can not get the slightest affirmation of TA, hold in the palm of the hand pain, get nothing. The fire of love, burning raging, if you do not get the firewood added by the other half, no matter how big the flame, will be extinguished.
If, pay sincerity in exchange for only hypocrisy, concern for the cold in exchange for only perfunctory, day and night company in exchange for just disdain, the feeling will be cold, the heart will be cold, the emotion will slowly fade. The cooling of a heart is not overnight, and it is not easy to warm a heart. True love is like water, with a hundred degrees of enthusiasm to love, love will boil, with zero degrees of indifference, love will cool, with minus several degrees of indifference treatment, the harvest can only be a layer of ice, no one will take the hot face to stick to your cold ass again and again. Can love to humble, but definitely not without a bottom line, a heart can not stand the tread again and again, trampling more times, the heart will be broken, no matter how strong the adhesive can not bond to the initial perfection.
The sky of love can not be light forever, and the road of love can not be covered with flowers forever. The daily life of firewood, rice and salt, pots and pans, it is inevitable to stumble and quarrel. Every time you stumble, you will leave a scar, big or small, and every scar, big or small, is an untouchable pain. Every quarrel, will leave a big or small shadow, every large and small shadow, linked together, will make a heart lost in the dark. Whether it is stumbling, or quarrelling, the one who loves deeply will be soft first, not weak, but deeply in love, reluctant to make the beloved unhappy. How much love there is, how much tolerance, the heart is full of grievances, the face is a smiling dress, the mouth is against the will to admit defeat. Afraid of, repeated tolerance, in exchange for cynicism. No matter how hot the heart is, if it is not affirmed, it will get cold; no matter how warm it is, if it is not recognized, it will be frozen. A heart should be how strong, can bear an injury again; a feeling should how firm, can bear a cold again cold? When sadness turns into despair, when enthusiasm turns into a glacier, what kind of warm sun can it use to melt the three-foot cold?
Love is mutual, love is equal, two people under the same roof, there is no distinction between high and low, no difference between family and family background, together, everything starts from scratch. Struggle together, work hard for a family together, no one pays much, only two hearts that cherish each other. Miss each other in wind and rain, take care of each other when sick, cherish each other in life, persuade each other in case of trouble, you have affection, I have love, you have pain, I have cherish, hold hands, we have to go shoulder to shoulder, walk together, we must be connected with each other. Love is true for truth, love is for heart for heart, a heart can not care about how much to pay, a person can put up with your mistakes again and again. For love, my eyes are raining for TA, my heart is holding an umbrella for TA, I hold up a clear sky for love, and I don't care about my feelings. In order to love, you can give up dignity, but can not touch the bottom line, when repeated tolerance, become miserable, when loving care, in exchange for only cold eye, when trying to please, in exchange for a tired, desperate behind, maybe only sad to let go.
Everyone has their own pride, everyone has their own pride. Indifference can only be ignored, perfunctory can only harvest prevarication. Can be picky, must not be excessive, there is no perfect person, there is no watertight thing. Lover's eyes, to enlarge the other half's good, narrow the other half's defects, if only staring at the lover's defects, bitter complaints, then love, what joy to speak of? A true love, need two hearts to cherish each other, why your high head, need others to lower the dignity of looking up, why your arrogance and domineering, need others to give up the bottom line to indulge? On the way to love, it is not easy to defend each other, and we can cherish it.
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