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A few days ago an older brother who had been in Beijing for eight years resigned and decided to go home.
He told me that for eight years, he went out early and returned late every day, except overtime, lived in the basement and shared a bed.
He spent eight years witnessing Beijing's luminous daytime, pressure everywhere.
After working hard for more than a year in the company, he finally failed to survive the company's bankruptcy and the speed of the boss's run, and was heavily in debt.
A phone call from parents turned into the last straw. His father was seriously ill and hospitalized, and the treatment cost of five thousand yuan a day fell from the sky.
This 1.8 meter tall man could not help but cover his face and cry like a child in the corridor of the hospital.
At this moment I clearly feel the cruelty of life collapse.
I really want to tell him that life has no obstacles, but I know very well that life only has endless obstacles.
How could there be any natural motivation in life? Who didn't break their teeth and swallow them in their stomachs? They all died with a mouthful of fairy air.
Life never favors anyone. From the day we are born, we are destined that the days will not be smooth forever.
02
I envy the life of a friend. She is now a flight attendant, flying international airlines.
Every day with delicate makeup, step on beautiful high heels, have a fit figure, shuttle around the world.
The circle of friends is all located at international airports around the world.
I commented on her in WeChat and envied your life very much. She didn't expect to receive her private message a few minutes later.
She sent me countless photos of dark nights and cold mornings. She told me that this was her life.
Travelling around the world without ever stepping out of an airport.
Not only that, she told me that she didn't study well at first, so she didn't find a good job.
In order to learn English well, she memorized all the words in the English dictionary, but she was still laughed at by others for her accent.
In order to get used to walking in high heels, her feet had numerous calluses. Underneath the exquisite makeup was a face that had experienced many vicissitudes.
She said: Never believe what insist on a say, are either dead, or dead support.
When the world kisses you with pain, hold back and show him your fangs. When we learn to be cruel to the world, it suddenly becomes gentle.
03
There was no hard work in the world. They were just grinding their teeth and holding on.
Stallone was rejected 1855 times before he became famous for Rocky.
Steve jobs endured 10 years, swallowed 10 years of injustice, took responsibility for 10 years, and returned to apple 10 years later to make apple stand in the world.
There is no shortcut in life, whose persistence is not dead support.
A small fish was slapped onto the beach by a big wave.
On the beach, it only flopped a few times, and its body was covered with mud. Moreover, the more it flopped, the more mud stuck to its body. A few small scales had already fallen off.
The little fish is dying. However, it was probably due to its desire to survive that it had stimulated a huge amount of survival energy when it was dying.
The little fish kept flopping, and whenever there was a wave, it breathed wildly.
Finally, at high tide, it tried its last bit of strength and jumped into the sea again, gaining rebirth.
The so-called persistence, in fact, is our desire to survive.
We are often afraid of many things, afraid of our parents getting old, afraid of unemployment, afraid of the unknown tomorrow.
But it turns out fear doesn't stop it from happening.
And what we can do is to develop the ability to block one side before we are afraid of attack.
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