Life is not always plain sailing, ups and downs, on and off is always normal.
When you are too tired to hold up, stop and have a rest, but don't give up, because there is no smooth way to live, tiredness is the only way.
There is a kind of tiredness called endless busyness.
A picture spread wildly on the Internet last year, which pierced the hearts of many people.
A screenshot from the Japanese TV series Uncle's Love shows a management warning her colleague:
Never scold young people, but don't be soft on the middle-aged people in the office.
Because young people you scold him, they will resign immediately, but you can scold the middle-aged people to death, especially those who have houses, cars and children.
Zhang ailing once wrote in "half Life fate":
Middle-aged men often feel lonely, because when they open their eyes, they are full of people who depend on him, and there is no one he can rely on.
When people reach a certain age, they will always find that there is endless work, endless firewood, rice, oil and salt, impenetrable human experience, and big and small things always come to the door together.
Many people still choose to walk forward when they can't bear the heavy load. they understand that tiredness is the norm, as is the busy work and daily chores.
Because life is a process of carrying a heavy load.
But a tired life is not equal to happiness.
Su Shi is a person who knows how to rejoice in bitterness, and he can always enrich himself in an ordinary and trivial life.
When it rains, everyone else stays at home and doesn't go out. Su Shi said that bamboo staff and awn shoes are better than horses, and a misty rain makes them peep at the open-minded life from the rain.
Su Shi's life is full of hardships, has been demoted many times, the situation of life is worse than once.
But he still chooses to face it calmly with an optimistic attitude and find fun in the busy and difficult predicament.
Sometimes life is really difficult and tiring. If things go against your wishes, please believe that there must be other plans.
In difficult times, keep a positive attitude and discover the beauty of life, so that you can meet better arrangements.
There is a kind of tiredness, which is called unspeakable
As people get older, they realize that there is no such thing as empathy in this world.
As people grow older, they realize that some roads can only be taken by themselves, and some grievances can only be borne by themselves.
The more people grow up, they realize that what others see is only the surface, and the so-called concern is only perfunctory. Reading and appreciation of American articles
More and more people do not like to send moments, the heart of the sad and aggrieved, happy and happy are left in the memo.
Often people will ask: why people live more and more tired?
The first Zen said:
When I was a child, I cried and laughed. When I grew up, I laughed and cried.
I made up with each other when I was a child, and I broke up with my anger when I grew up.
When I was a child, I wanted to speculate for the rest of my life, but when I grew up, vows of love and love were not a thought.
The world is still that world, and we are still the same, not less beautiful than in the past, but in the process of growing up, we are all tired.
Some tired because of grievances, obviously not their own fault, but have to bear the result of the problem.
Some tired is because of the pain, saying it hurts others and yourself, so I can only carry it silently in my heart.
It is probably the most tiring thing in life if there is bitterness.
It takes us two years to learn to speak, but it takes us a lifetime to learn to shut up.
But even so, don't lose hope in life. Hold yourself when you are wronged, learn to heal yourself when you are injured, and live your life in the past.
There is a kind of tiredness that no one understands.
You always have a big smile on your face, and people will think you have no scars. If you are always respectable, people will think that you have no hard feelings.
If life is only like the first sight, what is the autumn wind sad painting fan. It is easy to change the hearts of the old people, but the old people's hearts are changeable.
The most tiring thing in life is that no one understands it.
You didn't say that! You didn't ask! Such conversations are often heard in life.
One does not ask, thinking that the other party wants to say will say; one does not say, thinking that the other party will understand.
One is in the dark, the other feels that the other doesn't care about him.
They were all waiting for each other to take the initiative, but it backfired, and then lamented, "if you don't look for him, he won't come to you."
As a result, they broke up as they walked.
Some people in life don't understand because they don't take the initiative, and some don't understand because they don't care.
Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu are famous literary couples. They know each other and love each other for several years.
Once, Yang Jiang wrote a letter to Qian Zhongshu with only one word: pussy.
Qian Zhongshu replied to Yang Jiang's letter, there is also only one word: you.
After receiving Qian Zhongshu's reply, Yang Jiang instantly understood his mind. it turned out that the lame word written by Yang Jiang meant to ask Qian Zhongshu how many people there were in his heart.
And Qian Zhongshu replied your word, meaning that you are the only one in my heart.
It is a kind of happiness to be read by others.
But the long road of life, to meet a few people who know themselves is too difficult, encounter to cherish, do not meet it does not matter, good life to manage their own.
Life is tiring, but don't step back easily.
Life is difficult, but don't forget to be brave.
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