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I don't know if you have ever had such a feeling:
There are many friends around, and there are also many people who care about themselves, but there is always something from the bottom of our heart that we don't tell anyone.
There are many secret and emotional bloggers of tree holes on the Internet.
They are strange and unfamiliar to each of us.
But there are always people who would rather talk to them about their thoughts than to the people around them.
At first I didn't understand this kind of behavior, because aren't the people who know you best your family and friends?
Why open up to others?
Later, an anonymous netizen told me the answer. He told me:
When he grows up, the only thing he can hold on to is to bury his mind at the bottom of his heart and tell the secrets of those tree holes because at that moment he is no one but an anonymous netizen.
Hearing the netizen's answer, I suddenly feel sad, because this is a common phenomenon.
When we were young, we were open-mouthed, heartless and heartless. We chattered and quarrelled for several days because we lost a tooth.
When we grew up, there was a crack in our hearts, and we all smiled and said, "it's all right, everything will be all right."
But the truth is, it is getting better, but it has become a scar and can never be restored.
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The writer Lucy Maud Montgomery describes a young girl with a distinct personality in Anne with Red hair.
She is pure, upright, stubborn, emotional, likes to talk very much, and has a keen sensitivity to the beauty of nature.
She is so imaginative that she can imagine what is in front of her beautiful and poetic.
But the little girl, with red hair, freckles on her face and a bit of a quick temper, had no one to tell her because she had no care from her parents.
One day, she finally couldn't bear it and said all she had to say. But some people say that she is not sensible.
In fact, a large part of the reason why people don't like to deliver what they have on their minds is the fear of knowing the reactions of others.
Just like the heroine in the movie Night and Fog in Tin Shui Wai.
She was abused by her husband, but she chose to hide her injury.
When the neighbors heard the quarrel and came to care about her, she said: this is a family matter, and everyone around knows that it is not very good.
She was afraid that others would know that she had been hurt, because it was not a glorious thing.
After others know about this, there are not only countless concerns and concerns, but also more questions.
What did you do? He'll hurt you.
Why did you get hurt?
We are overwhelmed by too many questions.
Therefore, it is more difficult for us to take a step forward than to keep a secret.
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On the road of life, we are used to being alone and burying our minds.
But this is not a good choice.
We think that if we bury our worries at the bottom of our hearts, if we can't see them, there won't be any problems.
Others may not see it, but we forget that the most important protagonist is ourselves.
How many days and nights, we can not sleep over and over again, turning a blind eye, but the buried thoughts are like a shadow.
How long will it take us to understand that no matter how hard we hide, the pain will show.
In the cartoon Rick and Morty, Grandpa Rick is also a person who doesn't like to open up.
But at his best friend's wedding, he chose to open up to everyone.
In a toast, he said:
I am not the best person in the universe, nor do I believe in marriage and love. But Birdman is my best friend. If he loves Timmy, then I will love Timmy, too. To friendship, to love, to my greatest adventure so far, and to open my heart to others.
Before the toast, everyone was afraid that Rick would cause trouble, but the toast received the warmest applause from the audience.
Maybe opening up to strangers won't get real care and care.
But your closest family and friends really love you, so instead of deceiving yourself and others, open your heart to them.
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