01
There has been a lot of news about divorce recently. I know that there are some people who read too much about other people's sadness and dare not hope for marriage.
But I still want to say to you:
Never be disappointed in your marriage.
It is because of previous regrets and misses that you can learn to grasp the future, so don't easily say that there is no result, love is harvest.
In fact, there is one thing I have always believed about love:
Mutual affection is called love, wishful thinking is called self-harm.
Because, there is fate in this world, there is doom. The emergence of fate, there will be the test of disaster.
Only when two people work together to go through many trials, can they embrace love and maintain their marriage.
After all, unilateral pay is limited, it is easy to fall in the disaster, to the end full of scars.
I have heard many people say such a sentence:
I believe there is love in this world. I just don't believe it will happen to me.
In fact, people who say this sentence have either experienced bitter love or because they have seen too much of other people's feelings and then have their own disappointment.
However, there are many people who love each other in this world, so you don't have to feel sad because of other people's parting, nor do you feel depressed because of other people's love.
Just as you can't be disappointed in education just because you meet a bad teacher, you can't be disappointed in everyone because of one mistake and failure.
02
A Japanese director noticed this phenomenon and made a documentary "the Fruit of Life", which describes the warm life of an old couple.
The documentary has a rating of 9 on Douban. 7, make countless people cry.
The couple, who add up to 177 years old, have spoiled each other for 60 years, showing people the truest appearance of love.
The old man Xiuyi often shows the bluntness and tenderness of a teenager, praising his wife Yingzi's delicious cooking and telling everyone that she is the best and cutest girlfriend.
Xiuyi, who is already 87 years old, said, "you see, our Xiuici is getting better and better."
Yingzi is the daughter of the owner of the brewery. She speaks directly and is a little confused. She often loses things.
Xiuichi, on the other hand, is quite the opposite. he works meticulously and meticulously. The washed clothes should be stretched out and then arranged according to shape and size to hang.
Xiuyi never tries to change his wife, because in his eyes, this is the loveliness of his wife.
That's who she is. I knew it when I married her.
This is how two people with completely different personalities come together. They are different, but they both respect and keep each other's habits.
Some people ask, how did Eiko and Xiuichi still love each other after 60 years of marriage?
Yingzi replied with a smile:
In fact, marriage, like life, is made up of the little things of every day.
When you want to make your marriage life fine, it will turn into countless small pieces.
03
Many times we complain about the world and the people around us.
But we always ignore our own reasons, sometimes it is not that true love is hard to find, but that we are always unwilling to open our guard.
The more sad you are, the easier it is to be paranoid. Even if something good happens, you are always afraid of losing it one day.
We are always more likely to be affected by those negative emotions, so that we lose the eyes to find beauty.
There are so many people who get true love in this world. Don't lose heart and believe that the right person will come eventually. Before that, we just need to be ourselves.
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